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    Melbguy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How would you proceed?

    Hi guys,

    I'll try to keep this short. Been talking to this girl at work for a little while, innocent flirting, flirty eye contact from her. We dont work in the same department. Anyways i msged her for first time (online msn work systems).

    Me: You know all this talk about you having quiet weekends and going to the movies... we might have to go out and show you some fun!
    Her: Lol... you really think im that boring?
    Me: Haha... yeah i didnt want to say anything.
    Her: Ha! The movies are a great place to go on a cold winters day. Im actually really proud of myself for having quiet weekends.
    Me: That is a pretty lame excuse :P You must be saving up for something special. (I think she left the office before this msg got to her and I didnt have a response on my comp the following day)

    The next day was a friday so i msg her:

    Me: Hey how are ya?
    Her: Yeah im good thanks for asking. looking forward to the weekend.
    Me: Cool what you upto?
    Her: Well was supposed to be quiet but not the case anymore.
    Her: u?
    Me: Good stuff! Im just meeting up with friends soon.
    Me: Was going to see if you want to hang out bit later tonight.
    Her: Sorry one of the guys is leaving and were going out for drinks. He was a great asset and will be missed.
    Me: Cool sounds like fun (I was half way out the door at this stage to meet friends and busy the rest of the weeknd)

    I wont see her till Monday now after the weekend. How would you proceed from here? What are your thoughts?

    Your help is always appreciated!

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    Poet is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How would you proceed?

    Good start, but talk to her in person moreso. On Monday chat her up (flirt, neg etc etc) and ask her to do something. Over messaging it is difficult to get meetings arranged I've found so I prefer to do the work up front. That way it's harder for her to flake and make up excuses which is just a mouse click away when at the computer. Also get her number if you don't have it already because every girl I've met with prefers the phone and it is easier to convince her with your voice. Hope that helps. I can provide decent things to say or more critiques if you need them.

    Cheers,

    Poet

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    Melbguy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How would you proceed?

    Thanks for your response. Shes very social and hard to get a hold of in person (or in a group with guys) and I dont see her every day as shes in and out of office. That last conversation we had on online msn took the best part of half a day as either she was away or I was away. Trying to keep it professional as its an open plan office and dont wont rumours starting just yet.

    I was going to stop msging her and see if she initiates and just talk to her when i run into her.

    (I can provide decent things to say or more critiques if you need them).

    Yeah that would be great if you could?

    Thanks in advance!


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