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    adamw5963 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is the girl still interested?

    Ok I met this girl a few weeks ago. She is a pretty big christian. We have been on 2 mini dates. She gave me plenty of IOIs on these dates. She actually initiated the texting on a lot of days. Last thursday (about 8 days ago) was the last date we went on. She texted me like 15 min afterwards telling me how she had a great time. After we did a couple of texts she told me to text her the next morning. So I did but I only texted her a few times that day. All was going well just light texting and flirting. So then this past sunday (5 days ago) we set up a date for yesterday to go on a nature walk. She was excited about it. So I said great then its settled. She didn't text back to this. So I skipped texting her monday and tuesday. She didnt text me any which is fine with me. So I texted her wednesday with just some light joking around but the thing is she was really short with me. Then yesterday before the date I contacted her just to set up the logistics but she said she was gonna pick up a shift for one of her coworkers so she couldn't and that she was sorry. So I said its cool no worries. She didn't respond to this at all and still hasn't texted me today. Normally I wouldn't worry about it and just move on but the thing is she was into me and giving me IOIs and then all of sudden this. So I should I ask her about it or what?

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    SonnyCurtis is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Is the girl still interested?

    Do NOT ask her about it, just let it roll off you and try again later. Some guys play a one strike your out rule, two if you really like her/think there may still be a shot. Maybe even three strikes. Up to you to decide. Girls are weird, a hot/cold game towards you is not uncommon and she wants to fark with your mind. She wants to see if she can break you. Or shit, maybe her coworker really needed help. Whatever. Either way that's strike one.

    Wait a few days, idk if I'd text her but feel free to respond light/flirty if she texts you first, but keep it brief as always. Then ask her out again. You can call her out for flaking on you but not like an AFC... "hey flakety flakester... (rest of message)" Something fun like that. And next date escalate before things get boring.


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