I'm very new to the site, though I've done some general lurking on these types of things over the years after reading The Game. I have no doubt a lot of the things taught here are effective, but I'm wondering whether they apply as much to someone my age, 41. I mean, I assume the underlying principles aren't age-specific, but when I'm reading about the situations you are in, they're very typical of guys in there college years, maybe up to early thirties. Are many of you 40+? Is it too late for me???? Any other thoughts?