Hello figured i might aswell post about this particular problem i’ve been having. I met a hb9 on a train a few months back, had great contact and she asked for my number, she lived in another city so we texted a lot. eventually she came over and stayed 4 days at my place, we had a really good time, i really believe she was happy with me, then she left.
As soon as she left she got really sick (i called her and noticed by her voice that it was bad) anyway about 1 week passes with very little texting, and almost 0 from her side, and before she used to text me very frequently and be very warm and cute. in this period she also mentioned once that she can’t wait to see me… anyway i thought that something is up and i figured i should go no contact for a few days… 4 days pass and i hear nothing from her, then i text her telling hey whats up, i miss your texts, why dont we talk anymore? Then she responded telling me that a lot of nasty stuff happened to her since she left besides the week she was really sick, she has her own buisness, was swamped in work, and someone who was in the power to fuck her up financially did so just to show that he could, or out of spite. She said this really messed her up and she can’t focus on herself or feelings because of it, and that she deals with this kind of stuff alone. I responded telling her that she should let the bad things in life win and take away the good things she has, and i told her that if she needs time to get her balance she has it… i wont go into details there were about 4-5 texts in the conversation… anyway after i gave that response she didnt say anything, to be honest from what i judged about her character i dont think she’s lying… and now i decided to go no contact again. This is a really confusing situation that’s why i sought out your input. What’s your take on all this? What should i do if i want to get her back?