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    Default Should I give up this relationship?

    Hi, I'm dating a wonderful girl for about 2 months now, we talk over phone every day (I call most of times) and go on a date every 1 or 2 weeks, I have told her that I love her once (on 5th date), but she never told me so yet and she insists on not expressing her feelings to me. I was damn insecure at first because I want her badly but I did my damn best to not show it to her and got over my insecurity very fast.
    In our 3rd date in a restaurant she was telling me her last night dream about giving birth to 3 boys and she was feeling guilty of not caring enough for them and started to gently crying for a few minutes, is that a sign of interest?
    she is a huge football fanatic and talks a lot about it, I have no interest in football but I try too show a bit of interest, she says I'm in love with leo messi and talks alot lot about him, can it be the reason why she doesn't fall for me?
    I never declared her as my girlfriend because I don't know if it will make things better or no by knowing that she feels a lot more secure than me, she felt sexually comfortable with me at first though. We kissed at the first date she was very affectionate about it, but the second time she was a bit nervous, even once she offered to come to my house (to have sex obviously!) at the beginning but I live with my parent so it wasn't possible. I haven't tried to kiss her since, but I don't know if she is sexually excited in me or no?
    Where am I in this relationship? how far I have gone wrong? should I give up and move on?

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    Default Re: Should I give up this relationship?

    You are WAY too into your head with this man.

    Work on your Inner Game. Start making decisions. Don't overthink things.

    No disrespect, but man up and quit being a beta bitch.
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    Default Re: Should I give up this relationship?

    onethousand is right man,

    You're looking too deep into this all, and it shows. Women find confidence very attractive, and when you start acting Beta, you'll feel like more of a friend; than a dominant man (alpha).

    She was only having a bad dream, and felt comfortable enough to share it with you. This is fine, but it won't be if you begin to lose attraction. If you haven't known her for long, don't dwell on the topic of the dream for long.
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    Default Re: Should I give up this relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post
    You are WAY too into your head with this man.

    Work on your Inner Game. Start making decisions. Don't overthink things.

    No disrespect, but man up and quit being a beta bitch.
    Yeah I know how over-thinking and over analyzing hurts.
    What do you mean by inner game? I'm here to use your help to make correct decisions after all

    What Manly qualities do I need more at the moment?

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    Default Re: Should I give up this relationship?

    Quick question here:

    How much PUA material do you know of right now?
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    Default Re: Should I give up this relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by OOKĖ View Post
    onethousand is right man,

    You're looking too deep into this all, and it shows. Women find confidence very attractive, and when you start acting Beta, you'll feel like more of a friend; than a dominant man (alpha).

    She was only having a bad dream, and felt comfortable enough to share it with you. This is fine, but it won't be if you begin to lose attraction. If you haven't known her for long, don't dwell on the topic of the dream for long.
    I know, I have no problem with my confidence, but I sometimes say somethings to her which brings down my value or bring her value up and I see its results in her reactions almost instantly! I think this is where I need a lot of work.

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    Default Re: Should I give up this relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by OOKĖ View Post
    Quick question here:

    How much PUA material do you know of right now?
    I'm pretty new in this field, I was introduced to this field with "31 days to game better with woman" newsletter from bobby Rio and I am currently in day 17, and I have read a bunch of articles around the web since then, but haven't much time to practice them in real.

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    Default Re: Should I give up this relationship?

    I know I have shown her too much of beta attitude but is it possible now to change her mind about myself by showing the alpha attitude and how?


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