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    icey00 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: sh1t test or just rejection?

    Lol, to answer yolo. She probably started out as an attn wh0re and realized she was into me at some point. Beyond the pt now...

    yes sonny, total econ major. Did my prisoner's dilemma give it away? haha! We studied it in philosophy as well. You are also correct, I do over analyze! I love econ, so good for practical applications ... or so I tell myself to make my degree seem worthwhile ahahahaha.

    The whole wrapped up thing makes sense. I still see it as simple supply and demand. I made it too easy for the girl and she knows i was totally into her so she doesn't need to put effort into it. So fine, ill temper my expectations and assume she has ZERO interest in me at this point. I'll be more ellusive. If she comes to me... fine, i'll try to read her signals and see whats up. If she doesn't ohwell... she isn't worth my time because she doesn't value it AND she is a terrible friend because she again, doesn't make an effort. Funny how all her weird sh1t tests somewhat stand out now in hindsight.

    side note; I DID speak to her briefly friday, (i initiated contact) and spoke about a funny story quickly (all cocky funny)... and talked about some cool event I saw coming and town. Told her to check it out online and we "need to check it out"... she said she would without much hestitation. (her fun upbeat behavior prior to my being a pu55y). She responded well to the confidence. I was curious really to test how she would react to confident behavior. She did try to sh1t test my story but not the event. She also replied incredibly quickly (as per usual). She is VERY obvious in ignoring people if she doesn't want to talk to them.

    Seems a fair and open minded way to look at it. Like you and anyone else says... i'll just keep dating other chicks. I should have more during the whole ordeal, I got a bit hung up on her for sure.

    Take away for me, learn to be a bit more assertive with some of these girls... they don't like the procrastination.

    That seem like a fair game plan? My best friend mocks my curiosity over this girl as i'm treating it like a puzzle. I refuse to be out gamed by her. But where it used to be interest in her, it is becoming more about 'conquering' now nothing like a good rejection to slap you awake.

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    Default Re: sh1t test or just rejection?

    Yep, being assertive is key. You're the man. You have to take charge of the situation and steer the interaction where it needs to be at all times. You can't wait around for her to make a move. She won't. Ever. And if you take too long to make yours you risk blowing your shot. Reason for this is cus, if a girl likes you and you don't make a move - she assumes either A. you're not interested in her beyond just friends so she likewise puts you into the friend category or B. you don't have the balls to make a move, thus your beta, thus you lose your shot.

    Conquest is good. Girls love to throw out sh1t tests, give you IoIs then go cold, all kinds of stuff to fark with your mind. They want to get you thinking "Does she like me???" They want you to start doubting yourself. But an alpha will never fall victim to that. For an alpha the girl is just prey waiting to be caught. Her games are futile. But it's also important to know when to eject. There are obviously times when girls are just not into you. You have to learn to recognize token resistance to your advances versus actual resistance because she doesn't like you. Careful using words like gaming for a situation like this. Game has a lot more to do with girls you meet in a bar or something. Not with a girl you've known/hung out with for a few months. At that point the relationship is much more complex. But good luck sir.


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