I asked my boss out after I gave notice (got a new job). We went on 2 great dates-this girl was really feeling me, at the end of the 2nd date I told her that i LIKED her (which I regret). The problem was that the new job I taken required me to be in Kentucky for 2 weeks I told her this after our date she seemed fine. I asked would she see me again when I get back to nyc after those 2 weeks she said sure. 2 weeks passed and I didn't call her at all (which I regret) , I texted her once while I was away on business and I cut the conversation short (really busy with the new job). We went on a third date and in my opinion it was horrible! she seemed fine but I wasn't my best self. During our previous dates I got plenty of IOI's and I DHV and I closed with a kiss. The third date no such luck.
Now I head back to kentucky for a week and I wasn't going to make the same mistake twice by not talking to her. so I texted her. no response. texted her again. one line response or "super busy". I left it alone. Next day text her no response at all. And then I made a big mistake I basically blew up her phone with multiple texts.
I said "I would luv luv luv luv to get to know you-but ur killing me " (DESPERATE MUCH!!) So now I'm not feeling the love anymore from her. I tried introducing a mixtape to her via text but she thought they were creepy. So i put the kibosh on that. I send her a song for the day and call her beautiful (usually on fridays) and she responds to that favorably but how can one be sure- HOW CAN MIXTAPES BE CREEPY BUT A SONG FOR THE DAY IS PERFECT!?. but last sunday I hit her up and no response. I don't know what to do.
I think I have partial ITIS(or i think im seeking validation from her). So what I am asking is this.
How do I get her to become interested in me again (I still believe she's attracted to me but not as much)? I know if I can get her on a fourth date I can redeem myself. Please Help!!! I could just move on to the next one but I want to figure out how u draw a girl back in after u f*kc it up.