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    Default Should I give up on this HB?

    I've pretty much decided to give up, but I wanted some other reactions...

    Met her back in Nov, took awhile, but had 1 fun and nice coffee date. No kino, but it was good. Week or so later she was following me all around a mutual friends party. Then she took off for 2 weeks during the holidays. When she got back, I started getting the "I'm really busy this week!" stuff. I would ping, she would respond. End of Jan, I heard from some mutual friends she started dating someone. I figured I'd give it one more try to get her out, but got the "Busy this week!" thing again.

    At that point, I froze her out for 3 weeks.... until she shows up at my birthday get together. Invited by mutual friend, it was pretty weird seeing her there, but I was cool, she was friendly. Then she Liked a thing a check in at our local coffee spot. I wait a week or so then start the text flirting again. Hear she's still dating a guy. But she's not ignoring me, laughing at my jokes and stuff.

    But then she flips her status to "in a relationship". I try one last time with a phone call about a week after. She never calls back.

    That was a 5 weeks ago. In the meantime, she's Liked a link, a photo of me, and another coffee spot check-in just last week.

    What's the thought here? Attention whore? Embarrassed she didn't call back? Just awkward? Just friends?

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    Default Re: Should I give up on this HB?

    You're way overanalising this. It's been a month since you had a single date with her without as much as kino. She's telling you she's busy all the time and her friends and facebook status tell you she has a boyfriend.

    Conclusion?

    She has a boyfriend.

    Laughing at jokes and liking links and photos is something friends do all the time. So I think she's in a relationship and you're in the friend zone.

    It's time to drop this one and move on. It's up to you to decide whether you want to be friends with her or just make her "someone you know".

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    hitech is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Should I give up on this HB?

    Obviously you are right. However, it's a little more complicated. She didn't start dating this guy until Jan, around when she was telling me she was busy. But she kept talking to me and dropping little pings up until March when she flipped her status on FB. So it's not like she had a boyfriend when I met her or when we started talking.

    Anyway, ultimately, I agree, but I wanted to make sure I wasn't missing some signs that maybe she was rethinking things and fishing around for me to contact her again.

    She might be a good gateway to other girls, but I might be too invested to be a friend. Hard to say.


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