I've pretty much decided to give up, but I wanted some other reactions...
Met her back in Nov, took awhile, but had 1 fun and nice coffee date. No kino, but it was good. Week or so later she was following me all around a mutual friends party. Then she took off for 2 weeks during the holidays. When she got back, I started getting the "I'm really busy this week!" stuff. I would ping, she would respond. End of Jan, I heard from some mutual friends she started dating someone. I figured I'd give it one more try to get her out, but got the "Busy this week!" thing again.
At that point, I froze her out for 3 weeks.... until she shows up at my birthday get together. Invited by mutual friend, it was pretty weird seeing her there, but I was cool, she was friendly. Then she Liked a thing a check in at our local coffee spot. I wait a week or so then start the text flirting again. Hear she's still dating a guy. But she's not ignoring me, laughing at my jokes and stuff.
But then she flips her status to "in a relationship". I try one last time with a phone call about a week after. She never calls back.
That was a 5 weeks ago. In the meantime, she's Liked a link, a photo of me, and another coffee spot check-in just last week.
What's the thought here? Attention whore? Embarrassed she didn't call back? Just awkward? Just friends?