Im relatively new to the PUA community (5 months) and this is my first post. I really need help on this one...
Since i discovered the community, i've been able to meet many women, many of them quite interesting. It's been a great time however, lately I seem to come to a wall and can't get past it. The million dollar question (at least for me) is the following:
What do you do when you get along very well with someone but she tells you something along the lines of "i'm always up for meeting interesting people and making new friends, but at the moment i'm not interested in any kind of amorous adventures or anything alike"
Let me give you a bit of background on this one....
On two separate nights out, I met two girls with whom I had a very good connection at first, we exchanged numbers, and kept texting for the next week or so.
The first girl told me after a while that she thought I was a funny guy and all, but she was not interested in men at the moment (notice she didn't say a relationship or anything of the sort). After all the effort I had put in, i was pretty frustrated and i told her "I understand, perhaps it's the wrong time, but if in the future something changes and if i'm still around, maybe we could get together for a drink"
The second girl has been writing me on facebook and I had asked her out for drinks. Today she just gave me that exact same crap line: ""i'm always up for meeting interesting people and making new friends, but at the moment i'm not interested in any kind of amorous adventures or anything alike".
She then told me that if that was ok with me, we could still meet up for drinks.
What do I do? What should I write back, do, or say to change her opinion? Is it even possible to change her opinion? Is she a lesbian?