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    vprxtrm is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Getting my ex-girlfriend in bed

    Hello everyone!
    First of all I would like to say that I am quite new to this forum despite reading it for allmost a year now and I would like to share my appreciation to everyone that helps people like me to be better in the Pick-up field. A big Thank you to all of you.
    Also, please excuse my poor english, it's not my native language.

    Now for the problem I have. I'll try to keep it short. Six years ago i broke up from a very special girl. I've met her in a one-week vacation and spent 6 days at that time together until the vacation ended. Due to the fact that she was from another town (about 500 km away from mine) the relationship wasn't looking very good. Despite that, we kept connected and continued the "relashionship" for about 10 months (only by distance).

    After the relationship ended we kept the connection as friends. We talk about once/month, sometimes rarely, sometimes more often. We talk about everything, often including our sexual life (sometimes in extreme detail) and we have no secrets whatsoever.

    In all those years, the conversations we had where started by her (in more than 80% of the cases). In the last year she invited me several times to visit her town and see her, and directly telling me that I can stay at her place over night (knowing that I am marryed for 3 years now).
    I know that I was (and I still am) a very special person for her. We have, (despite the years that have passed since we last seen eachother and my marriage) a friendship at the border between buddy and lover.
    In the next couple of weeks I will make a short visit to her town. I will probably stay just one day, maybe 2. I told her that and I invited her to a coffe to see eachother and she was very excited abot that. She accepted immediately and told me to make sure that I will tell her the exact date with one or two days in advance so she will be available.
    So, my intention is to have sex with her and maybe turn her into a fark-buddy since my actual job would give me more ocasions to visit her town than I had untill now.

    What I would like to know from you guys is how my approach should be. What to do to game her and, most important, what I should NOT do to ruin the evening. I am very excited myself, I had this desire to bang her from the moment I met her, and now I have a very good ocasion.

    Thank you in advance for any good advice.

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    vprxtrm is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Getting my ex-girlfriend in bed

    No ideas? Monday i'll meet her...

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    vprxtrm is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Getting my ex-girlfriend in bed

    UPDATE

    Ok, we've met, and I kind of farked-it up big time....

    The date started well, the entire time she was laughing, smiling, we talked about everything including sexual topics etc... As the conversation goes, it was perfect, the eye contact was good, she was enjoying herself, she was very excited we've met (at least in the begining) and that's about it....

    From that point I had a black-out. I don't know what happened to me, I knew what I had to do but I didn't... I got stuck in the confort zone and I couldn' get out.

    No kino whatsoever (I knew that was one of the most important parts). I couldn't get flirty, I didn't even teased her at all (teasing is something that I can do naturaly, but now I just didn't).

    I can tell that she was a bit dissapointed at the end of the date, that excitement during the date was allmost gone.

    As far as I can tell, the whole time I treated her like a friend. I wanted to get out of the friend-zone but all I've done was to put her in my friend-zone.

    I don't know what happened to me, I knew everything I had to do but I couldn't do it. And I don't know why! I wasn't nervous, I wasn't shy, I wasn't affraid of gaming her, I just didn't know where to start. I stuffed my brain with all the things I should have done, but maybe it was too much of information and didn't knoe how to connect the dots and where to start.

    The only good thing that I can find is that I wasn't an AFC at all. I just acted like a very good friend. I kind of shown my indifference towards her as a female all the time.

    So guys, do you think I fucked-it up bad or is still good to go next time? (I will have a short trip to her town again in 1-2 months).

    Your thoughts would be appreciated!

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    Default Re: Getting my ex-girlfriend in bed

    You didnt annoy her so theres no reason why she wouldn't accept another date next time your back in town. Don't think too much about it. Enjoy your night and if you have sex it's a bonus. Sometimes you just have to force yourself to touch and kino the girl. Even if it feels awkward or you dont want to do it, do it anyway.

    When speaking to her act like nothing happened. Continue your normal banter with her. Hey you were just tired from travelling that night right?

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    Default Re: Getting my ex-girlfriend in bed

    Thanks for the reply.
    I'll take that in mind next time.


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