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    Lex
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    Default Primary girl flaked, so I'm going after her friend

    Keeping this short. I was texting this girl for about two weeks. It came time to meet up, but I couldn't make it. The day after, I texted asking how her day was going. No response in 2 days now.

    Basically moved on from her already, and started talking to someone who is apparently a friend of her's, and got her phone number.

    Girl A (The flake) suggested hanging with me and my twin this weekend. She flaked on me during text, so I lost a bit of interest, but want to use her friend to make her jealous.

    Girl B (My target) brought up the fact that I've been talking to Girl A, but still gave me her number.

    I feel like if I accept this invitation, then it would be positively reinforcing A flaking on me. I'm thinking of telling her my bro won't be able to come out, and leave the flake hanging. My first time playing this jealousy card. I don't want to hangout with Girl A after she dropped text.

    What would you do?

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    Default Re: Primary girl flaked, so I'm going after her friend

    If girl A flakes, just leave her be and move on to girl B. If she's really not interested, she's just not interested. Which makes sense if you've been texting her for two weeks before meeting up, while texting is a quick ticket to the friend zone. Be quicker with setting up a date and keep texting to a minimum next time.

    She might also be testing you to see if you can handle her ignoring you, in which case you should also not text her, and she will re-initiate texting herself later on. But again, after two weeks of texting and a flake to "hanging out" (so not even a date yet) most likely means you're in the friend zone.

    What exactly do you want from girl B? A relationship? Casual sex? something else?

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    Default Re: Primary girl flaked, so I'm going after her friend

    Thanks! I understand. As for girl B, just casual sex. It was planned for me to go over girl A's house. She had her roommate go out of town, but I couldn't make it. The texting between us hasn't been solid. Out of the two weeks, we didnt text for total of 5 days (never consecutive). She was saying how excited she was to meet me and blah blah blah...

    I was thinking I should pass the flake off to my brother if we did do this 4 people meet up.

    My target texted: "I think you been talking to my homegirl" gave cell anyway
    I didn't reply yet, but I kinda want to say somethin like. "Cool, she can get to know my bro while I get to know you." Idk

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    Default Re: Primary girl flaked, so I'm going after her friend

    Your target knows girl A is (or was) attracted to you, which shows you can attract women. That's a plus and thus only more reason for her to give you her number.

    If you're just going after casual sex, text her 'let's go get some drinks at (place) at (time) tonight (or tomorrow, or whatever). Just you and me.' And then on the date, use some kino escalation and tell her your intentions. Tell her you're not looking for a relationship, but for casual sex. And if she wants the same thing, get her over to a location where you can close the deal. Remember to remain very confident and look her straight into the eyes while you convey your intentions and wait for her answer.


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