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    nyclover is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to reply to "I love you"....

    I need your advice please guys.

    I met this hot model about 4 months ago. At first we just hung out together and within two weeks we were having sex. Within a month she had moved in with me. She has become my girlfriend. We hang out everyday and we have both started telling each other "I love you"... Im chilled about the relationship, love being with her but just dont want to mess it up.

    Shes away for 5 days for work and i just got the following text from her.

    I'm going to sleep my darling!! I'm so so happy that I met you my baby !!!!
    You brought out of me so much passion and feelings..it makes me dizzy ..
    The only one thing I might be afraid of, is that I don't even want to take a breath without you being next to me!!! Every morning I want to wake up with you and every night I want to close my eyes next to you!! So hard to be so far away from u...
    Wish me beautiful dreams..)) Love u xxxx

    How should i reply? I want to tell her I love her back but dont know if I should just reply with a funny message instead and play it cool.

    Also I have an issue. Simply put, I have a trust issue with her. Here is my dilemma. She still communicates with her ex and up to recently calls him baby and she misses him. On asking her why, she says its because "we are still close friends" but i am not in love with him. He is just a friend. It seems he was part of her life when she had no family and he means a lot to her. As he is in Switzerland and she is in NY I know they dont see each other but I didnt overly like the continued communication and told her. She has promised to cut it down.

    What do i do? Everything else is amazing. We have sex twice a day. She is so caring, a lovley and beautiful girl.

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    SonnyCurtis is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: How to reply to "I love you"....

    Gonna sound like a hippy here but, tell her what you feel man. You speak of her flatteringly, you must like her, do you care about more than fucking her, do you care about her feelings and her life? If so you could call that love. Just don't get all sappy about it. You might not wanna "wake up next to her EVERY day" and all that bullshit, that's some movie bullshit but love doesn't have to mean all that.

    Just my 2 cents.

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    Default Re: How to reply to "I love you"....

    Ya reading that again definitely don't get all sappy like that, she's going kinda hard on you but you can keep it cool and still let her know you like her.

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    Default Re: How to reply to "I love you"....

    Hey thanks for that. Jut dont want to end up being "predictable"... .

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    Default Re: How to reply to "I love you"....

    Anyone else have any thoughts?

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    Default Re: How to reply to "I love you"....

    On one hand she sounds awesome, on the other she sounds like an insecure little mushysappy princess. Probably why she can't let go of her ex. You could write back your thoughts but leave out the soap opera hello kitty mush. Say something like 'I love you too, you make me want to be a better man. My hearts all yours.' Be yourself. But I don't know really... I don't mean this as a criticism but it sounds like you like her looks and daily sex more than anything else. You might be 'just friends' too one day. What happens when the honeymoon is over? If she loves you there's no reason for her to be in such contact with an ex. She's either insecure or really does still have feelings for him.

    Women want to hear what they are thinking out of your mouth haha. Deep down most women want to hear that you only have feelings for them and no one else. That they are the most special girl in the world. It's pretty easy to say that without being mushy.

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    nyclover is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to reply to "I love you"....

    What about a reply like this..... Or is this too heavy.

    You just have no idea how much I miss you. My arms miss holding you. My eyes miss your smile. My ears miss the sound of your laugh. I miss the smell of your hair and the taste of your lips. I miss your head resting on my chest. I miss brushing back your hair & staring into your eyes. I love you too with all my heart my darling.

    Or any other suggestions?

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    Default Re: How to reply to "I love you"....

    Nah dude, WAY too mushy. I like what Whitedragon said.

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    Default Re: How to reply to "I love you"....

    Your not a chick or writing a romance novel but at the same time this girl sounds like a hopeless romantic (not a bad thing - I'm attracted to romantic thoughtful girls) and you already have her. Your not trying get her, she's already head over heels. So perhaps you can be as heavy as you want and she will love it. Maybe be a bit more playful, personal and creative with it like 'I like the way you play with your hair when you talk on the phone, I like the way you walk, I like the way you frown when you have done something clumsy, I miss those funky shoes you wear.' What your suggesting is pretty standard broad generic romantic waffle. Say what you like or miss about her that is uniquely her and show you know details about her. It's the little goofy unique things and cute imperfections I often love in women.


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