Hey I have a situation which I'm pretty sure would be hard for anyone. Bear with me, I want to give you backround but I have questions at the end of this. I'm a 30 yr old guy, fairly attractive, stylish. I go to bars and drive a decent car. There is a very cute 18yr old girl who lives with her parents across the street from me. For the first year, for some reason I didn't pay much attention to her.
We would say hi when we saw each other and I didn't notice any possible sexual connection. Anyways, I was a big brother to her little brother for this first year I lived on her street so I got to know the parents and family well. Still, myself and this girl didn't talk too much and maybe I was a fool to not flirt with her much the first year. (In fact, recently, in talking with her she joked around fishing to see if I was gay).
This girl is very popular with guys. She's not a whore as far as I can see, but she has TONS of male admirers. But I do have looks. I am muscular and stylish. This last six months or so, when I pull up on the street with my car and music playing, she has been coming up to my car and making chit chat. (what am I doing today, telling me about her day etc.) I usually listen and joke with her about a nickname we made up for her on facebook. It's a nickname I gave her and she likes it...for the last six months it's been my only gate in talking with her and making her laugh. I find it hard to talk to her because she's so much younger then me.
One time last month she offered to clean my car and crawled all over it, her ass in the air and looked back at me a couple times when she was in these compromising positions. She knows I check her out almost every time we talk. I have learned that she likes guys that can make her laugh and just talk to her as a friend. I can't do this! what's wrong with me. I freeze up and come across as a mute or say something boring in talking with this girl because I want to bang her so bad!
She seems to notice I'm not good at talking but has put up with it for months because I believe deep down she likes the idea of being with her older "cool" neighbor. The only thing I have that we talk about or can make her laugh is the nickname I gave her..last week I definitely got a good sign from her..she was with another guy and came up to my car. She asked how big my hand was and put her hand up against mine.
I slid my fingers without hesitating into hers and "pumped" her hand tight with mine. She looked at me with a grin and then pumped my hand twice even harder..and wouldn't release the grip we had until I pulled it away noticing the guy she was with staring at me. Apparently their just friends. She also tells me stories of other guys telling her dirty tings they want to do with her and stuff like that.
However, I can't seem to talk to her. No social skills. i just stare at her and smile mischievously when I listen to her...then she gets bored and walks away. I feel like she's giving me chances...lastly, last week I was alittle drunk at home and I sent her a facebook message saying I think ur cute and that their's a song in my car that reminds me of you and that we should hang out sometime. I also told her I like her personality, don't change and that again we should chill sometime. She never responded. Ive seen her a couple times since then and she hasn't mentioned anything, yesterday she came to my car briefly but I couldn't even think of anything to say and she ended up leaving in two mins. Today, on her parents porch, I was talking to my parents and she disagreed with something I said almost like she was offended. I feel like she found that email disappointing....lik e at my age I should have had more game.
My question is : did I blow it? Can I redeem myself? Can anyone out there for the love of sex help me attract this girl again. This is the one I want to get in bed...I will do whatever it takes. Help me out. I know she likes personality in guys, a guy that can make her laugh and have a normal convo...I can't seem to do that. Help me