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    Default Need lots of help with younger neighbor

    Hey I have a situation which I'm pretty sure would be hard for anyone. Bear with me, I want to give you backround but I have questions at the end of this. I'm a 30 yr old guy, fairly attractive, stylish. I go to bars and drive a decent car. There is a very cute 18yr old girl who lives with her parents across the street from me. For the first year, for some reason I didn't pay much attention to her.

    We would say hi when we saw each other and I didn't notice any possible sexual connection. Anyways, I was a big brother to her little brother for this first year I lived on her street so I got to know the parents and family well. Still, myself and this girl didn't talk too much and maybe I was a fool to not flirt with her much the first year. (In fact, recently, in talking with her she joked around fishing to see if I was gay).

    This girl is very popular with guys. She's not a whore as far as I can see, but she has TONS of male admirers. But I do have looks. I am muscular and stylish. This last six months or so, when I pull up on the street with my car and music playing, she has been coming up to my car and making chit chat. (what am I doing today, telling me about her day etc.) I usually listen and joke with her about a nickname we made up for her on facebook. It's a nickname I gave her and she likes it...for the last six months it's been my only gate in talking with her and making her laugh. I find it hard to talk to her because she's so much younger then me.

    One time last month she offered to clean my car and crawled all over it, her ass in the air and looked back at me a couple times when she was in these compromising positions. She knows I check her out almost every time we talk. I have learned that she likes guys that can make her laugh and just talk to her as a friend. I can't do this! what's wrong with me. I freeze up and come across as a mute or say something boring in talking with this girl because I want to bang her so bad!

    She seems to notice I'm not good at talking but has put up with it for months because I believe deep down she likes the idea of being with her older "cool" neighbor. The only thing I have that we talk about or can make her laugh is the nickname I gave her..last week I definitely got a good sign from her..she was with another guy and came up to my car. She asked how big my hand was and put her hand up against mine.

    I slid my fingers without hesitating into hers and "pumped" her hand tight with mine. She looked at me with a grin and then pumped my hand twice even harder..and wouldn't release the grip we had until I pulled it away noticing the guy she was with staring at me. Apparently their just friends. She also tells me stories of other guys telling her dirty tings they want to do with her and stuff like that.

    However, I can't seem to talk to her. No social skills. i just stare at her and smile mischievously when I listen to her...then she gets bored and walks away. I feel like she's giving me chances...lastly, last week I was alittle drunk at home and I sent her a facebook message saying I think ur cute and that their's a song in my car that reminds me of you and that we should hang out sometime. I also told her I like her personality, don't change and that again we should chill sometime. She never responded. Ive seen her a couple times since then and she hasn't mentioned anything, yesterday she came to my car briefly but I couldn't even think of anything to say and she ended up leaving in two mins. Today, on her parents porch, I was talking to my parents and she disagreed with something I said almost like she was offended. I feel like she found that email disappointing....lik e at my age I should have had more game.

    My question is : did I blow it? Can I redeem myself? Can anyone out there for the love of sex help me attract this girl again. This is the one I want to get in bed...I will do whatever it takes. Help me out. I know she likes personality in guys, a guy that can make her laugh and have a normal convo...I can't seem to do that. Help me

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    Default Re: Need lots of help with younger neighbor

    Can anyone pleassee help me with this? What can I do to attract younger or improve my socializing and making her laugh?

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    Default Re: Need lots of help with younger neighbor

    Here what you should do. Start acting mysterious. Get past your AA and ask her questions but never reveal much about yourself. Use false time constraints when the conversations good NOT when it starts getting slow. And try to convey your shyness as mysteriousness. This should make her fall for you hard especially since shes younger. Don't text or email her unless the messages are short and to the point. That should help you flip this situation. However on an outside note you need to work on your conversation and approach game. Good Luck bro.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Need lots of help with younger neighbor

    Thanks bud, you dont know how much I want this girl. I think my AA is ok...it's just conversation. I cant seem to talk to her or it's not natural. So you're suggesting ask her questions? Like about her school maybe and what are her plans for the week and stuff? And you suggest cutting the convos short when it's going well?

    Ok thanks Yolo, if I end up getting with her, I will owe you bro. Where can I improve my conversation skills? I find it so easy being a loner and anti-social even tho I have friends. Im just a naturally moody and serious guy, which sucks with women. Only thing I rely on is my style and looks.

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    Default Re: Need lots of help with younger neighbor

    I was also thinking pretending to turn-off my interest towards her. Make her work for my attention again.

    However, I have a nice pair of heels I got for free that a girl didn't want. Is it a good idea to give it to this girl as a gift? what do u think?

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    Default Re: Need lots of help with younger neighbor

    Quote Originally Posted by Ecko30 View Post
    I was also thinking pretending to turn-off my interest towards her. Make her work for my attention again.

    However, I have a nice pair of heels I got for free that a girl didn't want. Is it a good idea to give it to this girl as a gift? what do u think?
    It would come off cheap. Be natural and sharp. Be the older wise owl. She is a young dove. Don't play daddy to her either. Ask her out. You don't need any gimmicks or shoes just yet. Just like when you were young approach her and ask if she wants to meet up. Do something you want to do. Bring her into your age group rather than trying to be in her age group. You're wiser and get what you want so be direct and ask what you want.

    Not talking to her the 1st year might work in your favour. You could well have come across to her as not interested because she's too much of a 'little girl'. If she gets tons of admirers you being 'aloof' or mysterious could make her quite interested. I wouldn't have told her she's cute on Facebook though, in fact I rarely ever comment on good looking girls looks at all. It gives them the impression you are very experienced with good looking women and are more about virtues. I also wouldn't pretend not to be interested after just writing her to hang out on Facebook. It could come across your giving up.

    Ask her out directly to her face next time you see her. If your not the funny chatty guy don't try to be it. Be the sharp good looking experienced neighbor. Work to your strengths and her weakness. You have style and success, she has 'kids' for boyfriends. Next time she comes over to your car say 'hop in let's go for a ride'. If you ask her out and she declines don't get upset or stop being friendly, she's popular and might be dating someone but with girls like that at that age it may not last long. It's water off a ducks back for you. Call her 'kid' and ignore her looks as best you can.

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    Default Re: Need lots of help with younger neighbor

    Hey thanks bro! I think I will take your advice in calling her 'kid" and telling her to hop in next time she comes to my car. I know she likes Tim Hortons and there's one close by us, I'll take her there first until she becomes more comfortable...Im not sure about directly asking her out. I asked her to hang out over facebook and there was no response from her. I don't want to look desperate.

    Thanks bro!

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    Default Re: Need lots of help with younger neighbor

    Quote Originally Posted by Ecko30 View Post
    Hey thanks bro! I think I will take your advice in calling her 'kid" and telling her to hop in next time she comes to my car. I know she likes Tim Hortons and there's one close by us, I'll take her there first until she becomes more comfortable...Im not sure about directly asking her out. I asked her to hang out over facebook and there was no response from her. I don't want to look desperate.

    Thanks bro!
    Yeah do the car ride. But if you ever do ask her out or to hang out I try do it in person if I can. You have no idea why she didn't respond on FB so don't dwell on it. She's washed the car but ever been in it? Plus cars make girls horny every girl I've met loves the riskiness of having sex in a car or public place. By taking her out in your car, it's spontaneous, dares her a little and might seed a few sexual thoughts for her. Plus you don't have to talk as much because you're concentrating on driving. Good luck

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    Default Re: Need lots of help with younger neighbor

    Quote Originally Posted by Ecko30 View Post
    Ok thanks Yolo, if I end up getting with her, I will owe you bro. Where can I improve my conversation skills? I find it so easy being a loner and anti-social even tho I have friends. Im just a naturally moody and serious guy, which sucks with women. Only thing I rely on is my style and looks.
    Well I'd suggest working on your inner game. You have to decide where you are in life and what you want then you'll have better questions on how to get the girls you want. For example you're going to ask different questions if you want a LTR compared to a one night stand. But work on being more relaxed and social. If you have a hobby join a hobby club, go to sports event and meet people, talk to people everywhere you go. This doesn't mean you have to because an outgoing guy just get better with people interactions. This will help you in many ways.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Need lots of help with younger neighbor

    Hey Thanks again Yolo.

    I would like to find a gf. That's the main goal. However, along the way, I will come across one night stands, especially because I do try to get phone numbers.

    The only girl I'm actually working on right now is a much younger girl, I don't think she could be my gf because of the age difference.

    My main goal and what will make me happy, is finding a decent gf.


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