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    Default Girl eating my brains, probably moving away

    Yeah that was a nice fairytale. Something big happened in this girls life and now this oneitis wonderful girl Might need to make a big decision and move away and start a new life somewhere else because of "what happened in her life". It's already a long distance relationship but would be even further distance. She's talking about moving abroad, to her home country (we are european). It would simply not work having an exclusive relationship I'm afraid.

    I don't know if I can influence which decision she may take. We are spending Maybe the last weekend ever together this weekend she said. What the hell should I do? I feel for this girl in a way I haven't the last 20-30 girls I dated/had sex with.

    How can I fight for this?

    Maybe I should just try to control myself and let her go, it's her life and her decisions. And there are more girls out there.

    But it's freaking hard. Tell me guys, do I tell her what I feel? I know she's into me, she Must be. But it is really too early for me to say "You know what! you can move in with me!". We have been dating for 2 months and last week we decided we would have a relationship, but then this "Thing" happened for her.

    I know she's being honest and she didn't tell me yet exactly about what happened. I don't think I should push it, what do you guys think?

    Should I go completely into "honest" mode and tell her what I really feel in a confident and direct way. or should I leave her space and let her feel that "she will miss what she wont have" and just let her go and see what time does with this? The whole situation is just a probability really. But a serious probability, most likely to happen.

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    Default Re: Girl eating my brains, probably moving away

    Time's a healer and if she moves halfway across the globe, I doubt she'd come back just because she misses you. Usually, when you're the first one to say 'I love you' in a relationship, you're farked because it gives her the upper hand but if she moves to another continent you'll probably lose her.

    So I'd either admit my feelings in a confident and direct way or move on.

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    Default Re: Girl eating my brains, probably moving away

    Thanks for answer. I did the first thing you said. I took the chance to say in a confident direct way and it worked wonders because we got into the situation when she would ask me "Do you love me?" during a very emotional moment, knowing it could be our last time together.

    I answered that I have to deny that I love her and then I would pause for 5 seconds and say "But I have strong feelings for you". I would also do some pushing during our time together like "Hey it's your life I am sure you make the right decision that fits perfectly for You" and things like this and she would be like "Don't push me away emotionally....".

    Now fate will decide the rest. she probably ain't moving though. She also said she wanted to know that I Need her emotionally and that "she will do what she can". I had her say this to me first in so many ways before I actually had her knowing. (over a few weeks)

    I'm starting to think is she really very into me and maybe overdramatizing this "thing" that happened in her life, just for her to find out if I am really into her, how much I care, etc.

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    Default Re: Girl eating my brains, probably moving away

    Yeah sounds like she might have been shit testing you. Well played.


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