Re: Slept with a girl, kept in touch, but she's flakey & vague about seeing
There is a power in attraction- The person who cares the least is the person who has the most power in attraction. If you keep sending double messages before she gets back to you she is probably seeing you as lower value or too attached which can kill attraction.
Originally Posted by observer12
How often are you contacting her? If you are contacting her daily or even every other day and she isn't getting back to you consistently you need to back off. Too much contact is caring too much.
What type of messages are you sending? They should be fun and flirtatious and you should be making her smile with your messages, that should be your goal so she remembers why she is attracted to you.
The situation is currently that you guys hooked up, leave it what it is. If you guys were in a relationship you guys would be hanging out.
Are you sure the sex was good? Most people aren't as good at sex as they think. I know plenty of women who feel confident in their sexual powers that shouldn't be. I know plenty of men that think they are good but I've heard quite the opposite from women who'd been with them. I'm not saying you were a bad sexual partner but it isn't out of the question, if you were really good I promise she'd call you back because she'd be thinking about you.
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