Last night me and my buddy hit up the bar scene and started talking to 2 ladies. The one I was talking to -after some chatting- kept her stare way longer than normal and started touching me. It was very obvious she was looking for a kiss -confirming my hypothesis a few minutes later by going and making out with a random dude with almost no talk preceding the make out.
This girls is hot an I'd loooove to sleep with her -and I have her number. I also had a long enough conversation with her that if I call, it won't be awkward.
Now is it better that I did not make out with her? Several of the experts I have listened to say "don't make out with the girl in the bar/night club" and my observations last night kind of confirmed this. I saw a number of girls making out with random dudes in the bar and practically all of them just ran from the guys they were kissing after a little while. It was a wild 5-10 minute session that can later be justified by saying to themselves "Oh had no idea what I was doing, I was drunk" -or that's what it looked like to me.
So what do the experts here say? If the girl you meet is obviously willing to make out, should you simply not take the opportunity? If you do make out, is it a lost cause? Should you not even try to meet up with her later if you previously made out with her?