I have read over advice on getting out of the friend zone, and I severely have made all the usual mistakes... I am wanting to fix it, but there is one problem with creating distance...we both live in the same house (three people living together due to expenses, each with their own room, but she sleeps in my room in a frustratingly platonic way almost nightly, wants me to cuddle or spoon but redlights anything else.) due to certain circumstances and due to money it will be months before either of us can move out.
I have made all the worst mistakes, blowing time, money, attention, and sanity on her...and have ended up being the person she wants to fix everything, be her cuddle buddy,wallet, etc. She has no sense of modesty around me, but I feel that is more of looking at me like a piece of furnature than a person.
Whenever the topic of dating has come up, she gets hostile, states she isn't interested etc...BUT anytime I try to break things off completely she either gets depressed and I cave, or becomes psychotic.
Anytime I want space she gets hostile or depressed, but at the same time has completely friendzoned me. So I am looking for advice on how to get out of the friend zone under those circumstances.