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    BetMunch is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Want to date a friend of a friend

    Hi Guys,

    I went out tonight to meet some friends and one of them had brought along a HB8 that I woul dnow like to date. I have never met her before, and I did not know she was coming out tonight.

    I looked pretty rough, unshaven, t-shirt, and had had a few drinks at the football earlier so was in no position to try and charm her!

    I just treated her like she was part of our group and always has been. But now I need to get her alone.

    All I have learnt about her is that she has recently got back from travelling, and lives near me!

    I have found her on Facebook, but need to know how I can re-introduce myself to her with a view to getting a date, but I dont really want my friends to know that I am obviously trying to nail her!

    I'm thinking of messaging her with something along the lines: "Hi HB8, was nice meeting you the other day with <friend> I'd love to hear more about your time abroad sometime, add me as a friend and I'll take you out so you can tell me all about your adventures"

    Any ideas, or comments, before I give this a shot?

    Cheers

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    SonnyCurtis is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Want to date a friend of a friend

    1. You don't want your friends to know? What happens when you do nail her? Bros before hos man. Unless she is dating one of your friends currently or there's some other drama with her then why can't you just be straight up? I don't like the idea of being secretive about it. You don't necessarily have to OK it with your friends but if they ask you should be straight up. Note - "She's cute and I like her" will probably work better than "I wanna fark and dump her".

    2. Did you get IoIs or anything from this chick? That would make the process a whole lot smoother. You were there not me so if you feel like pulling the trigger, pull it.

    3. How you play this depends on the above. If you got good vibes/IoIs from her then what you said looks like it would work just fine. If not I think you should send the message but leave out the taking her out part. Talk to her briefly on FB, keep it light, flirt, get her #, when you feel you're ready then you can ask her out.

    4. I don't like the word date. It's AFC. Just call it hanging out.

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    Default Re: Want to date a friend of a friend

    Hi SonnyCurtis,

    Thanks for responding so quickly, heres some answers to your points:

    1. Sorry, that was badly phrased by me, I dont want my friends to know if I'm failing!!! More than happy for them to know if I'm not shot down. Also I wouldnt fark and run with a friend of a friend, it would reflect bad on my friend which is not what I am about. If its happening I would go for a relationship with her and see how that pans out.

    2. Hard to say about IOI's as I have always been rubbish at spotting these. She laughed a lot at my jokes, although to be fair I am pretty funny when I want to be. She gave me a good hug goodbye, but this could be just because all my friends (male to female) hug or (male to male) shake hands and she just joined in. We got seperated at the restaurant so I didnt get any time where I could have done something to get a good gauge on her. She definately listened to what I had to say to the group and we had a little bit of a connection about our villages.

    3. I got good vibes overall so I'm going to try it even if I am wrong! I can take a rejection, although I would rather not. You put it perfectly earlier. Shes cute I asked her out, so what? I will remember to keep it brief on FB before going for the N-close.

    4. Is "hanging out" English apropriate? I'm in England. Going to change date to hanging out from now on anyway!

    I am hanging out with a HB7 tomorrow night so will contact the HB8 Wednesday and see what happens.

    Thanks for your help, just reading what you say makes me wonder why I couldnt figure that out for myself, and re-reading my answers has helped me in my head!

    Game On!

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    Default Re: Want to date a friend of a friend

    You already know the answers man. You just have trouble seeing them because you keep going back and forth in your head, blinding yourself to the reality in front of you. I reckon all guys do this. Quit thinking about it - she's cute, pull the trigger, if you get rejected you'll deal with that when it comes. Good luck dude.


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