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    Default Hit on a work mate, added in fb, planning the next step

    Yesterday I found one of the hot girls in our office alone in her room, move in immediately and started a conversation, I caught her while checking her fb, I teased her about telling the boss about this and asked her to add me now so I won't tell, then I flirted a bit ate her cookies and received a ton of IOIs. accidentally it was her last day of work, she quited to pursue her studies for uni, so I wont see her in office again. I asked her for # but she resisted and I didn't insist. but I have her in fb. what should I do now?

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    Default Re: Hit on a work mate, added in fb, planning the next step

    Maybe don't associate yourself too much with the company because that is now her past. It's lucky you met on her last day.

    Just try get to know her a little more and add value to yourself without being a show off. She's moving onto new beginnings so she will have a lot on her plate. Respect that and smoothly work on making her incredibly curious about you. You are not 'that guy from the previous company' but also a completely 'new adventure'.

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    Default Re: Hit on a work mate, added in fb, planning the next step

    You are right, its one of my weaknesses I think, to tell the girl on the first date about all my personal details, about my families and friends and secrets. but now I want to play it right with this girl.

    one important thing is that she is 2 years older than me, I've always been more successful with older girls than younger ones but in the past 6 month I only dated 3 girls all 4-5 years younger than me and I'm adapted myself to game better with that kind of girls, what advice do you give to me abt this?

    also I'm planning to ask her for a date from fb, I don't want to have long conversations with her, because I may turn into her fb buddy, what do you think?

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    Default Re: Hit on a work mate, added in fb, planning the next step

    Quote Originally Posted by dgmortal View Post
    in the past 6 month I only dated 3 girls all 4-5 years younger than me and I'm adapted myself to game better with that kind of girls, what advice do you give to me abt this?

    also I'm planning to ask her for a date from fb, I don't want to have long conversations with her, because I may turn into her fb buddy, what do you think?
    As a matter of course always talk to women of all ages. The girls younger than you will be old ladies in zimmerframes one day and there is a child still playing with dolls in every old lady. Talk to girls older than what you used to date just for fun. Just chat to anyone about anything. You will then be able to talk about subjects that make ALL women interested. Be yourself, you are both wise and a big kid. 'Old enough to know better, young enough to do it again'

    Talking about family and personal details is ok especially if you are subtley adding value. You come from a good family. Your father is strong and successful and you get on well with your gorgeous fashionable mother and sister. Your genes are good and stable is what you are actually saying on a biological level.

    I personally don't like long conversations either on FB, chat, texting, messenger etc. I am always pushing to see them in real life. Use FB to get her number. Call her in person and ask her out. A lot of guys plant themselves into texting or FB neverland but I have no fear in calling girls up in person. She will directly respond yes or no and you're not nervously waiting around for a confirmation text or message.

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    Default Re: Hit on a work mate, added in fb, planning the next step

    Agreed ask for the number in some creative way. Usually May I have your number? is the wrong route. Be aggresive, so whats your number? might want to add something like...I might think about calling you..or something in that zon. if she says no for the number chances are its time to move on buddy.

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    Default Re: Hit on a work mate, added in fb, planning the next step

    last Thursday I asked this girl out for a date straight from fb, she refused cold and said "I am busy" I replied "np, we will arrange it some other time" then I started to ignore her in fb from then, until today she came back to office and when she was leaving she called me and said why do you ignore me? she was kinda upset, I told her you are wrong and I didn't notice you, as she was leaving I told her I will send you a pm in facebook she said "ok I will check my fb tonight if I'm not busy" with a smile and left.

    now I'm thinking about the type of message I should compose for her, any ideas?

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    Default Re: Hit on a work mate, added in fb, planning the next step

    Ok, you did good when you ignored her. You did a good take-away and removed your attention, which made her wonder why you stopped chasing her. I'm sure all other guys hitting on her didn't do what you did so it made you stand out. DO NOT REPLY TO HER by saying, "Sorry I ignored you." Don't bring up anything about that. If she brings it up tell her you got so damn busy you forgot all about FB and change subject. Next, ALOT of guys don't know this but her comment "If I'm not busy" translates to "If I like your message you'll get a reply. If I don't like your message I won't reply and you'll think I'm busy." Keep that in mind if she doesn't reply. Alright next step. Use FB to get her to meet you somewhere. Don't use it for conversation or you'll end up joining all her other suitors who just message her and will never get anything. I can't tell you exactly what to compose on the message because only you know what you've said to her but I can tell you that if I text or FB a girl I will say something like, "I'm going to my niece's birthday party next week. You're a girl, help me pick a gift for her at the mall." I can honestly tell you this has NEVER failed me. Why? Because I'm not asking her on a date. And as we walk the mall I'll be DHV'ing myself and qualifying her. If she picks a gift, like a Tinkerbell doll (my niece is 10 years old) I'll call her (the girl) Tinkerbell. That way the next time I message her I'll say "Hey Tinkerbell" and it brings her back to that emotional state. It makes messaging 10 times easier and I won't get that "I'm busy" reply. Try something like that bro. I wish you the best of luck. You're in a good position right now to get her. I hope this helps man.


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