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    maverickdiesel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Keep getting excuses even tho she seems interested n attracted?

    Okay so ive just rediscovered this website and am glad i did so b.c i need help.

    So this girl i just met a couple weeks ago who has made it clear she is attracted and interested in me. I met her in school with a cold approach. Not a girl i have class with so i only see her via plans n sh1t. So we hung out a couple times while we both had study hall at school and then made plans to go out on the weekend We didnt end up going but due to my fault i kinda disapeared for a week. So after not having spoke to her for a few days after i text her n make things good, we a hang out again at school when both on break. Then she asked me to go to a school event friday night. so friday comes n right before the event she kinda cancels n says she is sick.. But then like 30 miunutes before starts she says shes going and tells me to come meet her there.
    So i go. Very boring event we barely spoke which was due to the circumstances. After the event we decided to go out the next day, then she cancels saying her sister n younger brother are in the hospital. So yea w/e sh1t happens but kinda odd. Then we plan on another day this week. Now shes telling me someone died
    Lol so ya knw, not to be an asshole but come on! thats like the holy trinity of excuses right? Idc what ur luck is, that circumstance is super unlikely, I dont get it she keeps acting interested and sh1t so whats the deal with this bs?

    What do you guys think?


    Key points:
    - Shes Texts me everyday pretty much(she almost always texts me first)
    -always saying how cute i am
    - truly she seems interested
    - since everytime we get together its in a place with so many other people around i havent had been able to build ass good as rapport as i would have like to. Also being around a ton of people makes it hard to have an intimate conversation.

    Sorry for such a long post but i thought the details may be helpful to figuring this nonsense out.

    THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE HELP!!

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Keep getting excuses even tho she seems interested n attracted?

    Ignore her. She will make the next move if she wants to persue it. Find a plan B and often plan A comes running back. If she sets up another date and flakes yet again I wouldn't bother.

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    SonnyCurtis is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Keep getting excuses even tho she seems interested n attracted?

    During that boring event I woulda dipped or at least taken her somewhere cool after. She expects hanging out with you to be awesome/an adventure regardless of the circumstances. If it's boring you make it fun. That's why she flaked on you later. Whitedragon has the right idea.


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