Hi guys,

Long story, cut short - I was screwed over by my ex girlfriend not long ago and I think I may be suffering a bad case of "oneitis." I won't bore you with the details, but let's just say I'm experienced and a bit of a pro with regards what to do after a breakup.

I cut contact with her and started shit loads of hobbies - scuba diving, rock climbing, weight training (I'm thin, could do with a few extra pounds), Muay Thai...

I'm finding it really hard to get back in the game. Sounds sad, but I can't even jerk off without thinking about her! I feel like I'm throwing away the chance of a lifetime. I'm working from my laptop and travelling the world - currently in South East Asia...

Been with 6 local women, but I feel that's the easy option. Being white and getting laid in Thailand/Malaysia is NOT hard. So I'm trying to get back in the game with Western women - and my game royally sucks arse right now. I seem to have lost shit loads of confidence, lost my cheeky sense of humour and that glint in my eye.

In England, when this happens they say you have "lost your mojo." I know I'll get it back, I'm determined to. So many hot women out here and I feel like my 20 year old shy and unworthy self again!! (I'm 28 now). Advice to get that mojo back quicker is well appreciated