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    Default She told me she like me but now she's avoiding me

    I so confused. I been talking to this girl for two weeks. We get along great. We hung out four times. The last time I was with her she told me liked me. I told her I liked her to and wanted to get to know her better. I texted her the next dat and she never got back to me so I gave her a call...went straight to voice mail. Sent one more text a day later and stil nothing. Its been four days since I heard from her. Should I be worried? I really like her alot gents.

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    Default Re: She told me she like me but now she's avoiding me

    Don't send anything more for the time being and start working on a plan B. Date other girls. The other girls should come easy too because your heart is on plan A and you wont be nervous around them. Maybe you are her plan B? Can you sing or draw well? Send her another type of communication other than words. That has often worked for me as a wildcard, they are intrigued by your creativity and what that potentially offers. But you have to have some level of skill though.

    Next time if you hang out escalate or change course to spice it up and make it interesting. What did you do each time you hung out? Did you do new exciting things each time or were they repetitive?

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    Default Re: She told me she like me but now she's avoiding me

    Well the first time we hung out we met through my sister and we all went and hit up some bars. The second time we went to a friends house and watched a fight. Then she ask me to meet her by her job we ended up just talk for a few hours. last time was a party at my place. Thats where she told me she liked me. We left my place went to a diner and chilled. Went we parted ways I should made a strong move but she kissed me five times from my cheek down to my neck. Since then she had been unresponsive. Im leaving town tomorrow. I was thinking about sending her some flowers while I was away. (i will be gone for to weeks) maybe towards the end of my trip. Maybe have them delivered to her work place. My sis which is her friend says it sounds like a good idea. Plus she told me when they hang this weekend she will try and get some info. I never though of the idea of being a plan b. Thanks that helped alot. I do have other opions but she is really what I been looking for. I guess I can use the other girls to keep my mind busy. I juat couldnt wrap my head around the idea of why she wouldnt text back. t least to egknowledge my attempts to communicate with her.

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    Default Re: She told me she like me but now she's avoiding me

    Ok that all sounds good. Yeah man if she was kissing you on the cheek and neck last date that would have been a good time to make a move back What were you doing...just standing there?

    Women rarely dislike receiving flowers and it will tug her heart strings. Sending flowers while your away is especially 'touching'. Don't just send them 'from me blah blah'...make it poetic like 'I am miles away but with these flowers I am right next to your heart'. Thoughtful but not overly corny. Your sister will help. It possibly might be too soon for flowers or come across as needy...but if she's not responding, you likely need more than just a text or message to re-spark. Maybe it os toop late for flowers. Assume she is already seeing other men and you have to trump them. Again having a plan B helps out if she has moved on already too.

    It might be possible, especially using your sister, or even some random message, to kind of give her the impression you are out of town and potentially meeting other women and people in exciting circumstances. Get a little bit of jealousy going, then bam! the flowers arrive...

    Definately use your sister to find out about her though. No use sending soppy flowers if she's already close to someone else.

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    Default Re: She told me she like me but now she's avoiding me

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Ok that all sounds good. Yeah man if she was kissing you on the cheek and neck last date that would have been a good time to make a move back What were you doing...just standing there?

    Women rarely dislike receiving flowers and it will tug her heart strings. Sending flowers while your away is especially 'touching'. Don't just send them 'from me blah blah'...make it poetic like 'I am miles away but with these flowers I am right next to your heart'. Thoughtful but not overly corny. Your sister will help. It possibly might be too soon for flowers or come across as needy...but if she's not responding, you likely need more than just a text or message to re-spark. Maybe it os toop late for flowers. Assume she is already seeing other men and you have to trump them. Again having a plan B helps out if she has moved on already too.

    It might be possible, especially using your sister, or even some random message, to kind of give her the impression you are out of town and potentially meeting other women and people in exciting circumstances. Get a little bit of jealousy going, then bam! the flowers arrive...

    Definately use your sister to find out about her though. No use sending soppy flowers if she's already close to someone else.
    the problem I'm seeing is if he didn't respond to her kissing on him and he just let it go, she may have lost interest thinking him beta. A few times I've had girls over to my crib, make out on the couch, etc. but thought "oh I'll wait until the next time to fark her" and then never get a next time.

    That's almost impossible to come back from. I think he should just go do his thing and come back in a few weeks and hit her up, use the sister for intelligence but definitely not send flowers or anything.

    When a girl says she likes you, it should be treated like a sh1t test and qualified with "oh yeah? What do you like?" then say something like "Oh yeah, I like that about me too." or some other cocky/funny remark.

    Verbal expressions of physical attraction are okay, verbal expressions of emotional feelings are not.

    just my .02

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    Default Re: She told me she like me but now she's avoiding me

    IYeah I feel where you guys are coming from. I think Im going to hold off on the flowers. I'm enjoy this vacation alot haha! But I do want to still go for it. My sis is failing in the intel department but im planning a bounce back. This has been the my most challanging girl since I became single 7 months ago. I know when to cut off but for some reason I havent been able to with this one yet. I reply the night in my head and everything was there. The kino the coverstation I just didnt close. I still have a lot to learn and the feed back you guys have givin me is much very welcomed. she does need to see that I am alpha again. But I learned that to much time without communication can be a bad thing..

    she is One of those super indepentant women that feel they dont need anything from anyone. I need to take that power away somehow. I dont think that my lack of recommunication attempts has any effect on her. But it might show her that I dont need her nether. I will see her again and I think imma gonna hav one of my b girls there to bait her. You know first act real cool and into my a girl then transition out and give play to my b girl so she can see I have other opions. What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: She told me she like me but now she's avoiding me

    I think I said it's kinda too early for flowers so its probably good you let that go especially if she is independant. As I said on another post earlier today, as a general rule I don't do anything overly romantic, time wasting, money wasting etc on any girl until Ive got them completely or it also benefits me aswell. If things are going to happen they happen irrelevent of whether you sent them a poem, flowers, made her a candlelight dinner or had someone else on the inside trying to help you out.

    If you didnt make a move back when you had the chance as SiliconMagician said it is often impossible to come back from that. You can try be a cocky bastard from now on but you are still in the waiting zone.

    To get to the grand final and win the premiership you dont have to win every game along the way...'next!' just keep rolling. No point trying to spend energy fixing something that's broken when you can be tuning new babes. If she really digs you she will come back or your circles may cross again.

    That's why you need a plan B to take your mind and body off distracting thoughts.


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