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    bobat6 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default clubs full of groups

    hi, since last december, ive been reading tons of articles and posts etc on this website and learned a lot and also got rid of AA, got my confidence up way too much (kinda :P) but what i still am lacking is the conversations especially when the girl i wanna talk to is with a group of friends.. i donno how to just "infiltrate" in the group and start talking without they staring at me like im a weird loser lol :/ so i usually just talk to girls which are alone but then again usually they are shy and the conversation gets awkward and i practically dont get any numbers or even make out in a night :s any help/ideas what to do here?

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    Default Re: clubs full of groups

    bump(soz for double post) but any ideas please?

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    Default Re: clubs full of groups

    Here's what I do and it usually works. I prefer groups of just girls but it will also work with guys. Find your target and approach the group so she is right next to you. Say hello to everyone in the group and start some conversation that engages all of them. As you talk pan around and look each one in the eye as you say a few things. Normally I go up with a drink and cheers them - a toast to Friday or summer or whatever. Introduce yourself to all if them, search out any potential plan B's in the group and smile. Be super confident and try act like youre just going around the club meeting people in general. You may find the girl with the most personality or most talkative will try and engage you further. She may also not be the prettiest. Doesn't matter, gain some rapport with her but not so much she isolates you to herself. Then as the group conversation dies a bit and they go back to more fragmented talk with each other start engaging your target because she is right next to you. It will appear you approached the group but naturally she is lucky enough to happen to be closest. If it's not going well move on asap and try another group.

    If there are men in the group try approach them first and butter them up. It could be to ask what beer they are drinking, for a light or where they got their cool boots. They won't be used to that but will welcome the feel good conversation. Introduce yourself to them, make a new buddy. Obviously don't act gay or say 'dude your pecs are rad' or anything like that. If you are calm and confident they will probably default to be a beta in your presence anyway. Approach the alpha of the group if you can or the guy with most contact to the girls. Do it like they do it on the discovery channel. If you get them on side a) they will more likely accept you talking to their girlfriends and b) they become your insider wing. Ive even asked guys about the girls in the group and can they introduce me. Instant trust with the girls if he does this. If you don't crack a group right away leave it be and maybe things will happen later. Best approach of all perhaps is to be out with a mixed group of your own, direct it towards the target group (dancefloor, tables etc) and then merge groups. Swing baby. It's not easy at all to approach a group with other men but you just have to have the attitude you're out to meet people in general and even if you fail with the target girl you might gain a new bud or someone to shoot the breeze with for a bit. Don't see men as defensively guarding the group, use them utterly to your advantage.

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    Default Re: clubs full of groups

    thanks a lot bro , you sure know how to teach haha laughed at discovery channel part xD... btw for now im gonna stick with small female groups and then move over to mixed groups since mixed are harder


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