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    invictus.black is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Alcohol + Movie = Resistance?

    Quick Background Story:

    I am visiting my hometown, been chatting up / light flirting with this girl I used to know. She is actually my sister's ex best friend, from a few years ago. We know each other a little bit, but mostly buy association from my sister, we never really had an engaging conversation.
    We set up a meet at her place with alcohol and movies in her bedroom, though neither of us drank much, mostly because she had just received a phone call that she had to be at work in 11 hours, and I was not then sure if I'd seal the deal and spend the night, and I figured I may have to drive home.
    Anyways..
    We watch a movie, she is laying down so it was hard for me to naturally put my arm around her immediately without it seeming weird. I waited for her sit up (10 minutes later), and I told her playfully/confidently that she didn't need to sit so far away, and to move closer to me. She disregarded what I said and made a comment about the movie. I continued to lightly kino here. Playfully push her away, when she did something silly, or briefly rest my hand on her knee when making a point or be funny. I made her laugh constantly. I would put my arm against her pillow when she was sitting up and say.. "(girl) why don't you lay back and relax".. and "you can't be comfortable like that, come relax against me".. everytime she would either not acknowledge.

    It put a damper in my mood, because she was rejecting such a simple thing. Like holy shit.. lmao. Im not even upset, im just perplexed. Why was she being so difficult? Wouldn't be mostly assumed that this situation would lead to some sort of sexual interaction... Flirting on facebook... going to her place with her alone including alcohol and movies in the dark. Like wtf.

    Normally I'd have my arm around a girl, play with her body a little bit. Caress her arm, massage her inner leg, kiss her check, kiss her lip, ect, but it felt weird without being allowed to simply put my arm around her.

    I hope you all have some sort of advice. I think she is just one of those fluke girls, that would be considered an outlier, and doesn't make sense, but if I accept that I could be missing out on some learning.

    Thanks for reading.

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    SonnyCurtis is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Alcohol + Movie = Resistance?

    You should have just made your move dude. Blatant flirting prior to meeting up alone and drinking? Her intentions were clear. Ignoring your advances was a sh1t test. She was waiting for you to make your move in spite of her resistance.

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    invictus.black is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Alcohol + Movie = Resistance?

    Make what move? Like grab her, and a force a cuddle session to start with. I don't get it.

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    Default Re: Alcohol + Movie = Resistance?

    "you can't be comfortable like that, come relax against me"

    Don't ask her to do it, you should have just moved closer and closer to her as you were doing all the light kino.

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    Default Re: Alcohol + Movie = Resistance?

    This is sooo true dude. You should have just been more aggressive. I have struggled with same problems. I went on a couple 'dates' with younger girls and even though they told me no, and I pushed, after the date was all done, they were almost disapointed. They wanted to get farked, just playing hard to get. Im not going to make that mistake again.

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    Default Re: Alcohol + Movie = Resistance?

    Wow, thanks for the advice guys. :]
    I was trying to be more aggressive, but its almost a turnoff when they act that way. When "I" have to put in all the effort and they are weird as fuck, the ridiculous persistence "feels" like I'm supplicating, and I hate it. In my head I'm thinking: "holy shit fuck!! do you want to bang or not!?" I think she's just a weird one.

    Thanks for the advice though, I guess i'll just be even more aggressive, just grab her out of nowhere and cuddle her against me if she is going to be weird. If she resists that, then maybe i'll just walk the fuck out, IDK. LMAO.


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