Guys I've known this HB7 for a couple of years now. We met one night at a house party where we ended up sharing a bed with a couple of others and we played around a bit (just me and her). Prob would have Farked if no-one else was around.
After this I took her out on a date and she was all coy and nervous and didnt want to be seen as a slut etc. Bare in mind she lives with her ex bf as she is only 18 and cant afford to leave yet. Also she tells me she doesnt want anything more than friends as her life is already too complicated (shes fallen in love with her best friend for over a year now on the quiet). I try to push through all this and get some IOIs but tbh Its just not gonna happen so we become best friends.
Now fast forward 2 years later and I have moved back to the area and we are hanging out again. She is now living with the best friend she fell for. After a couple of months of me being on the scene hanging out and having laughs, flirty banter, jokes and lots of deep talking she decides to end it with the guy. He is a total Douche tbh.
Ok now we are still best friends but how can you be best friends like this as a guy and girl that find each other attractive? She has told me she had a dream about me and her having sex and that we know sooner or later we will prob fark. I replied with yes its inevitable lol. Then she said yeah if you made a move on me I dont know how Id react. Loads of IOIs! Texts about how im her soul mate and one true love in life and that we will end up together in the end. Blah blah blah. However, Ive not made any move on her as this whole thing is weird to me. She just bought a photo album for me and her and we took some shots and put them in and shes loving it. Tbh now im typing this it sounds like an old fashioned love story lol. She is that type of person for sure. She only let her first bf have sex after a year and then the next guy she refused his kiss for a year or so.
Ok so thats the positive stuff but then couple that with this madness: We start getting all close and shes saying all these great things about shes never known anyone as deep as me and loves how we can talk about anything. So I tell her we should go out and get some nice food and chill out with my ipad (got out new photos on it). She loves it in the moment and then just as Im coming to pick her up she says can we go somewhere really casual instead as my nice clothes are packed away (shes moving out of the bf house but this isnt an IOI for me lol). Its like shes got scared! Then after hanging out a couple more times having a great laugh and flirting I text her to say 'Had a great laugh' and she replies with 'Thats what Best Friends are for Haha.' Now wtf is that about?
Tbh the whole time shes saying how we are so great together and her actions are all strong IOIs but then says mad stuff like that?! Whats it all about? Its either totally friend zone or some test to push my buttons to get me to make a move? The Haha my be a clue too?
Really appreciate your incite guys if you've made it through this far