If the young girls you're around like clubbing do that. Don't worry about putt putt or dinner dates, try meet them after dinner for a drink, then get to a club. All that time you can kino really hard, dance have fun and get them a little tipsy. It's already late and they will be comfortable to escalate at that point. I don't usually need to get a girl drunk and I've never just taken a girl out in a car, got her drunk and then pounced. One it's not my style and two I doubt I could get many girls realistically to do that! Maybe if we were back in the 70's. Plus if I'm driving I can't drink. Almost all of the time I'm planning ahead for 2nd or third date. It's all a process. If they are underage for clubbing take them somewhere nice and start kissing outside the car like during a stroll along the beach or mountain overlooking the city, get them hot and then when back in the car try again. If they resist just accept it and try again next time. To grow a good garden you have to plant seeds and nurture them to grow. A good leader leads from behind.