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    mangofraky is offline PUA in Training
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    Default please help guys

    Hey guys imma tell you the situation as is. Please read on and gimme me your views.
    I met this girl on plentyoffish.com. we connected instantly. we spoke on the phone for hours everyday for about 3weeks and we really like each other.

    I have already read advice on never trusting girls on POF.com but dis one is different because, I never trust women. She call me all the time I call her all the time. We know each others every move.

    A few days ago she came to pick me up and we stayed at her place for a couple of days. She lives like 2 hours away(So this says she really determined about me) We had a great time, we had sex and after sex I feel like i wanted much more.
    The thing is she's a laid back kinda girl and don't really fuss on relationships to a huge extent.(She's not a whore or anything,she respects herself but, she is not that enthusiastic about settling and kids and sh1t, kinda like a live today for today).
    She's so cool and honest and is straight up with anything. The thing is I fell for her and I am crazy about her. One thing that turns her off is clingy guys and I starting to get clingy.(There's a saying that women are interesting before sex but this one took my heart away(iknow i sound like a pussy,jus cant help it)).I want to start something with her but I am becoming to clingy and so scared that she might leave. She always say lets see how it goes.

    She lives two hours away and I am trying to make this work. I am really determined about her and I believe in possiblities.
    Guys I knowI'm not suppose to be in love so I say its karma because I have used alot of girls in the past.

    Help me guys. please don't ignore just tell me want you think.

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    Default Re: please help guys

    i think...long distant relationships never work for 1. 2. she said she hates clingy guys and it seems your being clingy...An if she drove 2 hours to go fark you, how sure are she hasnt done that with anyone else? dude she lives two hours away she may be with someone else in her area...

    dont want to sound like a drag, but somethings fishy from this catch mate!
    A man is but a product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes -Mahatma Gandhi

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    Default Re: please help guys

    it seems like it was going great until you got clingy. Stop being clingy, stop showing you are needy and things will turn out how you want them to. Show her you are fine with or without her, and belive it because it is true. Be cool and you'll get what you want. Stop the emotions and all your wildest dreams will come true.

    the long distances does not seem to be an issue because she is picking you up and you are staying with her days on end. That is a plus. She also seems to dig you, so keep it up. Don't get to thinking yourself into a box, remember to live and to have fun. Being clingy and whinny is desperation. How can you have any fun or be cool like that ?

    If you have to back off a few days do it, but don't continue on with the whinny thoughts. You have to display this because this is what will work and what she wants. The inital buzz of meeting is dying off and you have to shift gears to adjust.

    Have fun with it man , enjoy this. You could be without anything....keep things in prospective.

    I really hope this works for you! I do.
    And report back my friend!

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    mangofraky is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: please help guys

    I understand where you coming from Gambet but, its not like that. why drive two hours to fuck me where u can get dick in your local community. She told me all the guys she had sex with and she really is an honest person.
    The thing is the past 2 days I was becoming a lil clingy lol. she did not call for 1 day and i tripped lol. (Thats not usually me). things cud still change.

    I'm not watching it from a point of what I wanna hear.

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    mangofraky is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: please help guys

    Coup TOTALLY gets the situation. you could not put it any better "Being clingy and whinny is desperation". I'm a man god dammit. Just live and have fun.

    Also i like the way you realised "The inital buzz of meeting is dying off and you have to shift gears to adjust.". Thats exactly what is happening or may soon happen so I have change my thoughts and be the man i was born to be.

    like gambet quoted "A man is but a product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes"


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