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    Default Started having jealousy towards a friend

    Hello guys,
    I'm having this issue right now. I have a friend who's really close to me and i start feeling jealous for him. The reason is he's always the first in everyone's mind and I have never been seconded this many times. I asked done girls why they say they don't know. And I really have to have that thing. All I can ask you is to help me out to get over this feeling. What can I do? I already don't hang out with him a lot cz he's been a little bit douche to me lately and I think he thinks he's better than me. So what can I do? Don't tell to not get affected by that cz if I knew how I would've already done that.

    Thanks in advance,
    Prince

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    Default Re: Started having jealousy towards a friend

    DeAngelo tells us to use social construction to our advantage. Among the 77 laws: Cut out (or limit) shitty friends. If he think he's better than you he can't be that great of a friend anyway.

    I have a friend who is exponentially better with women than me. However, despite having known each other for years we have never crossed paths/doubled up on women. Reason being stylistic preferences. We both peacock to a different crowd to make sure everything stays friendly and supportive instead of a petty competition. When you become firm in your identity it makes you different from everyone else. When you're different jealousy will leave you and only come back as somebody that you used to know.
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    Default Re: Started having jealousy towards a friend

    You get seconded because you feel that way about him. That "thing" comes when you no longer care about it, just smile, be social and live your life. Right now you're making it kind of a competition. You feel like you need to become his equal or better in social stance. That never works out because those who just love what they do instead of caring about where they stand are always better than those who care.

    Think about it:
    Christiano Ronaldo will never be better than Messi (football / soccer)
    Vegeta will never be better than Goku (Dragonball Z)
    Tom Dwan will never be better than Phil Ivey (poker)

    And why? Because they all have the dire need to become the best. Just let go.

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    Default Re: Started having jealousy towards a friend

    I agree with both ideas but I feel like mr.onethousand's idea fits my situation better because that guy is a shitty friend. I didn't tell you about the way he treats me and I always waited for him to get that you can be that big of an asshole. But now i learned a lesson. So im gonna make distance with that dude and then work on joy giving a fuck about things like that. So thank you guys for help!

    Prince


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