hey all so basically my question is this.. i usually go to clubs with a group of friends and almost every night i see groups of girls dancing near us, my friends push someone (they think has a chance with 1 of em) onto them..

the problem is this, if you hit her, its awkward and what should be a good opener in that case?
if you dont hit her, her friends (or herself)would still notice you were pushed and so they think you lack confidence or you dont like her since you didnt approach