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    Chamoy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy Why can't I get past the first date or even have one??

    Hi guys!

    I donīt know what's wrong with me. I'm not the best on meeting women, but normally I can approach them in partys or clubs, get their phone numbers and even sometimes make out with them.

    The first problem comes when I want to see them again. Normally I text or call the girl a few days later,make conversation and try to build comfort, but when I want to go on a date with her, she seems uninterested in me and makes excuses, so I never see the girl again.

    The second problem. Sometimes I have a first date, and I think everything goes well, but when I want to have a second one, she refuses, donīt answer messages or just disappear. So I think the first date wasn't good at all.

    Few months ago I started to text a girl I met a long ago. I wasn't interested in her at first, but a really enjoyed talking with her, she mades me laugh a lot and we had a great phone/text relation.

    Time later she started to act differently. She texted me nice things, told me she had a gift for me, sent me kisses, etc. I'm not gonna lie, I really started to like her back... a lot. Even we couldn't see each other because school, work and other stuff, the things seems to be great...

    BUT... a week or two ago, she started to act cold, bored and uninterested in me. She doesn't reply my texts, answer my calls and if she did, our conversations gone bad... She doesn't want to go out with me and I really don't know why.

    I saw yesterday in her's friend restaurant, she invited me because i told her I really want to see her, but I feel she did it just for pity. She actually told to a common friend to go with me. The night was from bad to worse. She barely talked with me, she seems uncomfortable when I touched her, she doesn't laugh at my jokes and she took the first opportunity to talk to anyone else...

    I really don't know what's wrong with me. I really need some help with this girl and with my other problems.

    Sorry for my english writing

    Thanks in advance

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    Default Re: Why can't I get past the first date or even have one??

    Quote Originally Posted by Chamoy View Post
    Hi guys!

    I donīt know what's wrong with me. I'm not the best on meeting women, but normally I can approach them in partys or clubs, get their phone numbers and even sometimes make out with them.

    The first problem comes when I want to see them again. Normally I text or call the girl a few days later,make conversation and try to build comfort, but when I want to go on a date with her, she seems uninterested in me and makes excuses, so I never see the girl again.

    The second problem. Sometimes I have a first date, and I think everything goes well, but when I want to have a second one, she refuses, donīt answer messages or just disappear. So I think the first date wasn't good at all.

    Few months ago I started to text a girl I met a long ago. I wasn't interested in her at first, but a really enjoyed talking with her, she mades me laugh a lot and we had a great phone/text relation.

    Time later she started to act differently. She texted me nice things, told me she had a gift for me, sent me kisses, etc. I'm not gonna lie, I really started to like her back... a lot. Even we couldn't see each other because school, work and other stuff, the things seems to be great...

    BUT... a week or two ago, she started to act cold, bored and uninterested in me. She doesn't reply my texts, answer my calls and if she did, our conversations gone bad... She doesn't want to go out with me and I really don't know why.

    I saw yesterday in her's friend restaurant, she invited me because i told her I really want to see her, but I feel she did it just for pity. She actually told to a common friend to go with me. The night was from bad to worse. She barely talked with me, she seems uncomfortable when I touched her, she doesn't laugh at my jokes and she took the first opportunity to talk to anyone else...

    I really don't know what's wrong with me. I really need some help with this girl and with my other problems.

    Sorry for my english writing

    Thanks in advance
    First off, nothing wrong with you. Just in your game. You obviously need to make adjustments. First off start with Body Language. That is usually where the first mistake happens because virtually all game is body language related.

    Are you emoting to these women? Telling them you "like" them? You are sparse on any particular details so its hard to diagnose a problem. My suggestion would be to get yourself another date, and then post a detailed field report here discussing as much as you can remember regarding what was said, your body language, etc. so that we can diagnose where your shortcomings are and try to help you correct them.

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Why can't I get past the first date or even have one??

    Yeah like siliconmagician said, need more information. Try be more aggressive. Here's a wildcard option: ask the girl why she didn't want to go out anymore or lost interest. Don't have to always ask other men for advice. If she's going to no longer be a potential option, learn from her. At least then it wasn't a complete waste of time

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    Default Re: Why can't I get past the first date or even have one??

    you should me more spontaneous dont be that cliche dude. be interesting, play hard to get or sum.tell her the things u dont like about her(not the things she has no control over). stop caring period. be a man u got better shit to worry about than a woman not wanting you.
    be a motherfucker


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