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    Default How Do I apologize to this girl and begin talking to her again?

    Ok so For my high school prom I went with this girl who happens to be my neighbor, she was cute and now she got hotter. But after prom was over idk why i just didnt talk to her that much... i have no clue why i did that but i left for college and now my first year of college is over and now that girls prom just ended friday (when i took her she was a junior). But I want to start talking to her again and see if i can maybe make it a relationship. But i never see her... and it would be creepy for me to text her and even creepier for me to knock on her door. But if i do see her what do i say...? Also how could i make it so i see her?

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    Default Re: How Do I apologize to this girl and begin talking to her again?

    I'm not sure why you need to apologize as you have done nothing wrong and if she is your neighbor why can you not go around and say hello?

    If you do get talking don't apologize and don't tell her anything about how she has matured in beauty. To you she is still just the little girl next door and you are the wiser senior/college guy who is used to meeting top notch college girls. Use your maturity and age to your advantage like you did years before. Was your prom night with her good? Did she like you then?

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    Default Re: How Do I apologize to this girl and begin talking to her again?

    First off wtf.. why would you apologize you didn't do anything wrong, that'd be an AFC mistake. Secondly why would texting or knocking on the door be creepy? If you want to talk to her balls up and do it dude you can't make excuses and put it off. Just tell her you want her to join you in something fun.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: How Do I apologize to this girl and begin talking to her again?

    I very much agree with both above responses. There is absolutely no reason for you to apologise for anything. Furthermore, you took her to her first prom and you're her neighbour. She'll probably be delighted to see you. Her first prom is something special and she most likely understands that you don't see seniors for a year when they graduate high school.

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    Default Re: How Do I apologize to this girl and begin talking to her again?

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    I very much agree with both above responses. There is absolutely no reason for you to apologise for anything. Furthermore, you took her to her first prom and you're her neighbour. She'll probably be delighted to see you. Her first prom is something special and she most likely understands that you don't see seniors for a year when they graduate high school.
    but how do i start talking to her? i will feel weird if i just went to her house...do i text her message her on facebook? i will feel weird doing all those cause she will be like "uhh why is he talking to me after a year...?"

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    Default Re: How Do I apologize to this girl and begin talking to her again?

    If you are neighbors then it may be even weirder to Facebook her when you can just go across the street. I get the feeling you think you aren't sure how to approach her because of the fear of rejection. This is something you will always have to cope with on some level. You are a confident alpha male who is in college. You are gracing her with your presence. Of course do not verbalize this to her because it displays low social intelligence. But your attitude should reflect this. You will be fine. Just keep it casual.

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    Default Re: How Do I apologize to this girl and begin talking to her again?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    If you are neighbors then it may be even weirder to Facebook her when you can just go across the street. I get the feeling you think you aren't sure how to approach her because of the fear of rejection. This is something you will always have to cope with on some level. You are a confident alpha male who is in college. You are gracing her with your presence. Of course do not verbalize this to her because it displays low social intelligence. But your attitude should reflect this. You will be fine. Just keep it casual.
    but i havent seen her in a year! or even talked to her in a year. what do i do knock on her door ask if shes home and ask if she wants to hang out and catch up on things?

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    Default Re: How Do I apologize to this girl and begin talking to her again?

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    but i havent seen her in a year! or even talked to her in a year. what do i do knock on her door ask if shes home and ask if she wants to hang out and catch up on things?
    Yes pretty much. Your neighbours so you can do exactly that. It would obviously be better to naturally bump into her as she's coming or going but there is absolutely no harm in saying hello to an old friend and neighbor like that. Your nervousness about the situation is what you need to over come. Your over thinking it all. Knock on door 'hi is sexy babe in?'. Chat to her parents and charm the pants off them if she's out and leave a message to come and say hi, or ask her number, or ask when she's back. Your not asking for a date. Your just trying to say hi to an old friend. She's not going to get angry at you, she will be pleased to see you.

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    Default Re: How Do I apologize to this girl and begin talking to her again?

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Yes pretty much. Your neighbours so you can do exactly that. It would obviously be better to naturally bump into her as she's coming or going but there is absolutely no harm in saying hello to an old friend and neighbor like that. Your nervousness about the situation is what you need to over come. Your over thinking it all. Knock on door 'hi is sexy babe in?'. Chat to her parents and charm the pants off them if she's out and leave a message to come and say hi, or ask her number, or ask when she's back. Your not asking for a date. Your just trying to say hi to an old friend. She's not going to get angry at you, she will be pleased to see you.
    you know what your right, i'm over thinking this way too much. I’m a sophisticated sex robot sent back through time to change the future…for one lucky lady.

    lol but in all seriousness yeah i am nervous, i am having alot of anxiety right now of what could happen, i hate this, this is why i never approach any girl. i read ll of the tips, about approach anxiety, beginners and all that stuff and i still suck.

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    Default Re: How Do I apologize to this girl and begin talking to her again?

    As said earlier, don't apologize. She didn't come see you either, did she?

    You could do something along the lines of "Hey, you got your prom soon, right? Need a ride?"

    It shows you care enough to know it's going on around now, but not enough to look up the actual date


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