i think i have a problem with approaching. for instance, there's been multiple times where I've gotten good indications that a girl wants me to approach, but i just don't do it. i don't think its approach anxiety, because I'm comfortable around people. but i just never end up doing it. I'm thinking it may be because i find myself lost in thought throughout the day, or I'm focused on so many other things, that i almost find no reason to approach. am i chickening out??
This only bothers me because there's this hb9 at my work that has just recently paid attention to me, and i feel like ill end up choking or blowing my chance at it.i think i might put the vagina at the pedestal at times, and discourages me. this occasionally happens to me where I'm given an opportunity to approach but i just over look it, and this is something i definitely would like to change about myself.
Any ideas or suggestions would be very helpful, i think this is one of the major problems i deal with when it comes to finding a woman to have relations with