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    ss284 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with girl I know from college bar

    First, a quick background. I'm a grad student at the college I got my undergrad from. A few months ago, I met this girl at a local bar that we both frequent. She happens to be a sophomore where I go to school. She's pretty hot and has a nice personality. We always have pleasant conversations, although they tend to be short and uneventful. However, last week, I ran into her and asked what she was up to and she said, "Just trying to get boys to buy me drinks." I'm trying to figure out why she would tell me something like that other than that she was drunk and had no filter. I also wonder if it was significant that she referred to them as boys when she knows I'm older than most of the "boys" in there. She also said hey baby to me a few nights later when I was walking home from the bar. How should I go about this situation?

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    Default Re: Need help with girl I know from college bar

    Hi ss284,

    From your post doesn't really sound like there is much chemistry there. So I'd focus on is that aspect. It's pretty easy to do.

    The next time you get into a conversation with her, talk for about 3-5 minutes, and then look for an opportunity to break rapport i.e. break the comfort zone.

    e.g. 3-5 minutes into conversation say for example she says "just trying to get boys to buy me drinks."

    Say somethink like, " oh you're one of those are you...tsk tsk." take her hand and give it a little playful slap.

    So now you've introduced some flirting into the conversation. Then start escalating. See how it goes from there bro'

    Hope this helps
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    PS - don't buy her a drink

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    Default Re: Need help with girl I know from college bar

    Thanks, that does help. I was mad when I went home that night that I didn't think of a line like that. If she starts flirting with me, would it be wrong to say something like, "I'm not buying you drink."? I'm still trying to figure out why she said that to me in the first place. Was she trying to get me to buy her a drink or was she trying to let me know that I'm different from the "boys?" I guess she also could've been drunk and not thinking before she spoke.


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