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    badatmath is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl that I've always liked come back into picture... strings attached

    Hello, this situation is complex and I feel I should be as thorough as possible to get the best solution. I will try to be as blunt as possible and not ramble.

    There is a girl I have vaguely known for a couple years. She is dating a guy that I went to high school with, which is how I know her. I would not say that me and this other guy are "friends", in fact he sort of resents my ambition and my style in general. This guy is kind of a douche and in my opinion she deserves better.

    I have always thought this girl was perfect, not in a sexual way but just in a "she's my type" kind of way... but I have never really thought about it too deeply because she was never single.

    This last weekend me and bunch of people went boat camping. She and her boyfriend were both there. At night this guy would get very drunk and just be stupid, like usual. Saturday night me and the girl had an innocent drunken conversation which ended with boyfriend getting jealous. Sunday morning I had to leave early and the girl asked me if she could catch a ride with me back to town because she had to work that day.

    On the way home (just me and her) she was telling me about her boyfriend and how she was pretty much tired of him. I took the high road and didn't say anything like "you should dump him", even though I wanted to. I didn't really hint in any way that I liked her.

    She told me she worked at a candy store, so I offered to stop by and see her. She said that I should do that. I went to the candy store to see her and she tried to give me free candy, I insisted on paying. She gave me a bunch of chocolates for free anyway. (they are really good by the way)

    I can't say for sure, but she just sort of had this flirtatious look on her face when she spoke to me.

    I don't have her phone number. We have been friends on facebook for a while, but shes the kind of person that only checks facebook like once a month.

    We don't really have any mutual friends, besides asshole boyfriend.

    I can't stop thinking about her, and I have no idea really how she feels about me.

    Even if I wanted to see her again, how do I contact her? The last time I saw her before this weekend was like 6 months ago. How do I not get into the friend zone? How do I not seem like I want her and boyfriend to break up, even though I do.

    Even if she did break up with boyfriend I doubt she would want to get into another relationship right away, and I don't want to force the issue..

    ... but I'm kinda tired of waiting my turn and I want to make something happen.

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    Default Re: Girl that I've always liked come back into picture... strings attached

    I admit that this may not be the right venue for this question.

    Just hoping someone still has something to say...

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    Default Re: Girl that I've always liked come back into picture... strings attached

    Definately make something happen, she's interested in you by the sounds of it. I regret not making a move on a girl in a similar situation to yours many years ago. She had a boyfriend but they eventually split. I limbo'd out of respect at the beginning and friendzoned myself. Looking back she was always giving me signals but I never did anything about it. It was a good learning experience though as I never made that mistake again. So I say go for it, you know where she works so can ask her out. If her BF is a drunken idiot and she said she is tiring of him, just play it cool and she will choose you. Might just need to pace the game.

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    Default Re: Girl that I've always liked come back into picture... strings attached

    Any other opinions?

    So let me ask a follow-up question.

    Say you were going to ask a girl out while she was working at a candy store, how exactly would you do this? Do you wait for the other customers to leave? Do you ask her if she wants to hang out on her break and ask then?

    Thanks again for any replies.

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    Default Re: Girl that I've always liked come back into picture... strings attached

    Still wondering what I should do...

    Still can't stop thinking about her...

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    Default Re: Girl that I've always liked come back into picture... strings attached

    No customers would be perfect otherwise when there are only women customers. I find it harder to ask a girl out in front of random men. Getting her out on her break then trying for a proper date sounds good (do some recon).

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    Default Re: Girl that I've always liked come back into picture... strings attached

    Alright thanks. lol.

    I'm gonna see her in a few days at a function so now it's just up to me.

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    Default Re: Girl that I've always liked come back into picture... strings attached

    I'm not going to tell you to make a move or not. I'm not going to tell you what to do, nor should you ask us what you SHOULD do. We will tell you what you COULD do, but if you ever want to become the Alpha Male you must make the decision yourself. With the diversity of guys on here you shouldn't ask questions of morality, and you'll notice all the top gurus in The Game made it to the top by letting their followers decide their own morals and ethics while sticking strictly to theory. Bill, Mystery, Neil, David D, Wygant, TD, etc. These guys give you the tools, but nothing more--as it should be.

    So if YOU want to boyfriend destroy, do it because you weighed the consequences and chose to, not because someone said you should (not a personal attack to you Dragon, just want to make sure he makes the decision for the right reasons.)

    I'm pretty sure Suave is the guy you want to talk to. If I remember right he has some great material on BF Destroying.
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