Hello, this situation is complex and I feel I should be as thorough as possible to get the best solution. I will try to be as blunt as possible and not ramble.
There is a girl I have vaguely known for a couple years. She is dating a guy that I went to high school with, which is how I know her. I would not say that me and this other guy are "friends", in fact he sort of resents my ambition and my style in general. This guy is kind of a douche and in my opinion she deserves better.
I have always thought this girl was perfect, not in a sexual way but just in a "she's my type" kind of way... but I have never really thought about it too deeply because she was never single.
This last weekend me and bunch of people went boat camping. She and her boyfriend were both there. At night this guy would get very drunk and just be stupid, like usual. Saturday night me and the girl had an innocent drunken conversation which ended with boyfriend getting jealous. Sunday morning I had to leave early and the girl asked me if she could catch a ride with me back to town because she had to work that day.
On the way home (just me and her) she was telling me about her boyfriend and how she was pretty much tired of him. I took the high road and didn't say anything like "you should dump him", even though I wanted to. I didn't really hint in any way that I liked her.
She told me she worked at a candy store, so I offered to stop by and see her. She said that I should do that. I went to the candy store to see her and she tried to give me free candy, I insisted on paying. She gave me a bunch of chocolates for free anyway. (they are really good by the way)
I can't say for sure, but she just sort of had this flirtatious look on her face when she spoke to me.
I don't have her phone number. We have been friends on facebook for a while, but shes the kind of person that only checks facebook like once a month.
We don't really have any mutual friends, besides asshole boyfriend.
I can't stop thinking about her, and I have no idea really how she feels about me.
Even if I wanted to see her again, how do I contact her? The last time I saw her before this weekend was like 6 months ago. How do I not get into the friend zone? How do I not seem like I want her and boyfriend to break up, even though I do.
Even if she did break up with boyfriend I doubt she would want to get into another relationship right away, and I don't want to force the issue..
... but I'm kinda tired of waiting my turn and I want to make something happen.