What if you simply don't have enough money to compete with other guys who are not better men than you, but simply can provide more fun and comfort to a women because they have more resources than you?
I'm 18 years old and I have to compete with 20 year olds. I have good clothing, some elite brands, but - for example - I have just lost out on my ex to a guy who has all the money to have any kind of fun, has his own car, travels a lot... It is not his money, it is his father who gives a lot of cash to him. He doesn't seem ambitious at all - he failed to get into a university, gives it another shot this year. My parents can't afford to travel or pay me trips in Europe, even the driving license is too expensive for us at the moment so I should try to lead an exciting and interesting life without having much money.
My wardrobe could be improved a bit but that department is alright, but for example, what to do if you can't drive a car and some other guy can? (which means the opportunities and chances of a good date are much higher than they are for me). Not to mention where you live - my room is really small and half empty, I sleep in a small and uncomfy bed where we couldn't even sleep together, we have a small living room with uncomfortable sofas, and my parents are not like me at all... When I bought a rather expensive cologne they told me I was a snob and things like that. Genereally, they think I'm a snob just because I'm trying to live quality life, not what they are used to.
I know that women are not attracted to money itself, but to the good things you can provide with money, but I think I am beginning to reach my maximum, and I need much more money to take myself to the next level. My wardrobe is 10/8, but I would need more resources in general.
What can I do to improve my situation? What are the most important things, having a nice bedroom, driving a car, provide fun with travelling or what? I would also need the priorities because I'm unable to have everything at the moment.
Thx in advance.