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    branko2580 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Why doe's she tell me?

    There's this girl ive known for nearly four years, she used to like me back then but i turned her down because i was already with someone else. Time has passed and we've both been in and out of relationship ive been single for 18 months her 12. we started flirting with eachother again but now and again she will bring her ex up and say "you won't believe who just text me?" i know she really hates him because she physically caught him sleeping with someone else. But she is bringing him up a lot over the past few weeks.


    Is this bad?

    Cheers Guys.

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    Default Re: Why doe's she tell me?

    Two things are likely here.
    1) You're in the friendzone and she talks to you about him and tells you this stuff because she sees you ask just a friend and someone to help her through her problems. In this case you really don't have much of a chance and should move on.

    2) She likes you and she's testing you. Shes trying to show her theres other guys that want her and she wants you to make a move already. If so balls up and just do it waiting is just killing you.

    I'm sure you know which scenario this fits and whether you need to suck it up and move on or balls up and make your move you need to do it soon. Waiting any more can only harm you. Be alpha and take control my man.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    joejoe1084 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Why doe's she tell me?

    Yeah, Yolo007 is right. Even more to the point: she is asking if you remember the guy who she caught sleeping with somebody else. She already knows that he is a sleeze, yet she brings him up...there is definetly a reason, which is good, but only if you be alpha and take control.


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