Carlos xuma in his ultimate inner game program states that alpha man must be non reactive to the hard time which his gf gives to him, no emotional reaction at all. But In the Pandoras box system it is stated that in front of justifiers we should be extremely vigilant and punish them IMMEDIATELY when they try to test or disrespect us, by getting cold and distant. I'm in a relationship with a justifier and I'm pretty confused now. whats your thoughts about this? isn't getting cold and distant an emotional reaction?