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    Default When told You deserve better

    Through the years, I've been told by more than 5 females that I deserve better. It ranges from a girl I just fecked to went on a date one and never spoke again, to a girl I dated for over a year, with a few other scenarios thrown in. What does this validate in a girl?

    My conclusions are they feel I am a high value male and are insecure in themselves through past experiences.

    Not in a good place in life and do it to save face.

    Or is an escape method since girls are not good at being direct with their feelings.

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    Default Re: When told You deserve better

    Sorry to hear it man, been there before. Usually I took it as 'you deserve someone who likes you more than I do', to be perfectly honest. Since that's what I've meant by it in the past when telling it to a girl, as an indirect escape method. There's more fish in the sea, I figure, in that situation.

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    Default Re: When told You deserve better

    Glad it was in my afc days, always stuck with me hearing it a lot. Kind of motivates me now to be someone who can be capable of dating and a relationship instead of just sleeping with women and seeking validation from it.

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    Default Re: When told You deserve better

    2 books that really helped me in that regard (girls staying around) were David Deida's 'The Way of the Superior Man' and Daniel Rose's 'Sex God Method', if you haven't read them already. GL bud, sounds like you're on the right track

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    Default Re: When told You deserve better

    Girls say it when they like you, respect you, and think you're great, but they're not enamored with you

    I've told it to an ex who would do anything for me, too much really (you know who)
    In my case she deserved more than I could give her because she was willing to give so much and do so much

    It may mean you showed too much interest and not enough mystery? That's my best guess
    Good luck Chet, definitely miss gamin with ya, keep applying in Minneapolis!
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    Default Re: When told You deserve better

    Does sound spot on. That was my teenage years, but always wondered. Figured this was right place to ask.

    Ill be up there for a visit soon. You got to post some field reports from up there.


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