So I like this girl alot for quite a while and we became friends around the time she broke up with her ex. So naturally i became her crying shoulder and unfortunately landed in the friend zone. Even after telling her my feelings for her, i think i am still stuck in the friend zone well at least that what she says " we are good friends" and " i dont have feeling for you" every time however her body language shows that she is interested in me. But she will never tell me on my face.
I am not gonna lie she is very hot! but she knows that too so with all that she has that attitude and dont give a shit factor in her aswell. Even if she does misses me she never going to let me know or pick up the phone call me if i am ignoring her.
I have tried asking her out and she turns me down every time, tell me she feels uncomfortable going out with a guy. Its her shyness, fear and consciousness that i cant get past.
But last time i tried a different approach as some might say emotional blackmailing when asking her out. When she told me we are good friend and i dont like u, i told her to tell me this on my face rather than telling me on the phone or txting it. she like no i dont want to but I insisted to she said yes.
N then I texted her sayin wth, before u turn me down lets go on a date just for my memory" n she said yes.
All that is sweet , but I cant seem to get her attention lately say for the past year properly as she used to before. Previously i was her go to guy, she was talking to me almost 24/7.Before going to work, at work , on her way to school and back home. Now she rarely calls, its usually i who calls and txts and she replies to it. I feel as if I am exerting all the pressure to get her interest and she is rarely returning the favor.
what can i do to get her attention back and make her accept her feelings for me. I was think of frustrating her by creating sexual tension through aiming for her ego every time i talk to her which is after a couple of days. When i say sexual tension i mean give her atitude to hurt her ego.Or any other suggestions?