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    lpc007 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to get a girls attention back

    So I like this girl alot for quite a while and we became friends around the time she broke up with her ex. So naturally i became her crying shoulder and unfortunately landed in the friend zone. Even after telling her my feelings for her, i think i am still stuck in the friend zone well at least that what she says " we are good friends" and " i dont have feeling for you" every time however her body language shows that she is interested in me. But she will never tell me on my face.
    I am not gonna lie she is very hot! but she knows that too so with all that she has that attitude and dont give a shit factor in her aswell. Even if she does misses me she never going to let me know or pick up the phone call me if i am ignoring her.
    I have tried asking her out and she turns me down every time, tell me she feels uncomfortable going out with a guy. Its her shyness, fear and consciousness that i cant get past.
    But last time i tried a different approach as some might say emotional blackmailing when asking her out. When she told me we are good friend and i dont like u, i told her to tell me this on my face rather than telling me on the phone or txting it. she like no i dont want to but I insisted to she said yes.
    N then I texted her sayin wth, before u turn me down lets go on a date just for my memory" n she said yes.
    All that is sweet , but I cant seem to get her attention lately say for the past year properly as she used to before. Previously i was her go to guy, she was talking to me almost 24/7.Before going to work, at work , on her way to school and back home. Now she rarely calls, its usually i who calls and txts and she replies to it. I feel as if I am exerting all the pressure to get her interest and she is rarely returning the favor.
    what can i do to get her attention back and make her accept her feelings for me. I was think of frustrating her by creating sexual tension through aiming for her ego every time i talk to her which is after a couple of days. When i say sexual tension i mean give her atitude to hurt her ego.Or any other suggestions?

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    Default Re: How to get a girls attention back

    Ipc007,

    You are seriously in the friend zone, bro'. Moreover, you have oneitis which is clouding your judgment here. You're coming across as an AFC.

    you need to stop bothering with this girl. You need to work on yourself and developing alpha qualities. You need to get busy with your life and be selfish about it. Virgil has compiled a newbie guide. Study it and apply it.

    Hope this helps
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    Default Re: How to get a girls attention back

    This is one of those situations, man, where you have to completely drop her, at least for a while, and go after other girls. She totally takes you for granted, and maybe is even beginning to view your relationship with her as a chore if it's always you texting or calling.
    I'm not saying never try again. Just get some game under your belt and wait long enough that you can go back like a 'different guy' altogether. If she still enjoys talking to you at all, then she will miss it. During this hiatus, if she does reach out to you, be fun and brief, unless you're ready to try again at this point and suggest meeting up in a fun, low pressure atmosphere where you can give her a good enough dhv to turn things around.

    But it's an uphill battle, man. The key part of this reply is the part about dropping her and trying other women. Too many girls in the world to get all hung up on one.

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    Default Re: How to get a girls attention back

    Tell her your having lots of sex and it's wearing you down, can you hang out with her to rest a bit because of course she is just a friend.

    Ok I'm kidding (although it could work). She's an ice queen, you need to attack her with an ice pick (not literally) and either just kiss her and stop talking, let her go completely and start dating other women or start dating other women and talk to her about it to test her jealously and don't hesitate about the detail 'this girl I am dating I seem to be able to last for hours' 'I made love in a public place last week - you ever done anything like that? She was really into it, I was quite surprised because she was shy...kinda like you'

    Idk man all or nothing with friendzones.


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