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    somethingaweful is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Hot and cold girl at work

    Girl I work with digs me. The ioi's are there. We tried to meet up last weekend but I was busy and she txts me to see if Im coming out but couldnt. Ive asked her to get a drink with me after work but she was 'tired.' I ask her to come out with me this weekend and she cant this time even though she said we should meetup this weekend. She mentions what shes doing tomorrow but idk if thats a vague invite or not.

    Im afraid Im falling into the FZ. At first I was super flirty, than AFC ish for a few days, than back to busting her balls. Once she says she cant go out yesterday I tell her shes missing out and she txts back 'Haha is that so'. I get the feeling I should next her and hang out with my other lady friend but at the same time I want to push to meet her on sun/mon. What should I do?

    I was thnking of sending a txt like 'youre on strike 2 you better be careful' and leave it at that. Please help a rAFC out.




    edit: I should mention she answers my compliance tests while at lunch and gets mad if I leave before her without walking her out.

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    Default Re: Need help with this girl

    Do not continue with Cocky/Funny or Negging. You didn't receive an entirely positive response, so the one you considered sending I woulnd't because there's a decent chance it will blow up in your face.

    If you want to throw in the towel, go ahead. But this isn't a lost cause. She seems like a high maintenance bitch (the good kind) that could be a lot of fun with a little conditioning.

    Take charge of this situation. Don't meet her on her time; she can meet you on yours and if that doesn't work out maybe next time, but you are the alpha so you call the shots.
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    Default Re: Need help with this girl

    Im not ready to throw in the towel just yet. Might ask her to hang out sun/mon. Lets say she cant make it though, how would you act at work. Our cubicles near each other and we have lunch almost everyday, I dont want to seem like a moody bitch by not having lunch with her but at the same time I dont want to reward her flaky behavior.

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    Default Re: Need help with this girl

    If you have lunch every day, continue to have lunch with her. It's not a reward if it's a regular event.

    Just pretend like nothing happened. It's not a big deal. Be nonchalant.
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    Default Re: Need help with this girl

    Well you should call her out on her behavior. Depending on your rapport level with her then you can get away with something strong like "I can't respect someone who behaves that way" and leave it at that. If you feel that statement coming from you wouldn't ruin her day then you can do the same thing in a joking way. Add some roleplaying and tell her because of her behavior you're leaving her for your secretary. Reminder, you need really strong rapport in order to ruin her day with a statement like that. Otherwise she will brush it off and now you are the emotional one.


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