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    Hey Guys,
    Ive been going over my game and I have noticed my strength is approach. I am not shy and do well getting girls phone numbers. However, when meeting them for a date, I don 't seem to know how to act and am not confident on what my 'image' is when meeting these girls.

    How do I work on these things?

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    Default Re: Image and attitude

    Is this actual textbook date? If so try something more casual. Either a series of mini-dates or get a group of friends together but know you can isolate her later. Traditional dates put huge pressure on both of the people, and that's probably what you're feeling, which is normal for that scenario. So just try something else.

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    Funny, my game is the opposite. Weak at the approach, but once I got the date, I owned them. Usually could get them to not only have sex or close but fall in love in a short period of time.

    I'm not sure what you're doing on the date that's different, but the same behaviors should work, just move slower.

    Be confident, playful, and keep negging. The only difference I do is I slow up the kino. I don't do rapid kino escalation. Escalate, but do it a little slower. Time it so your making out with her toward the end of the date.

    If you're walking her to the door and haven't kissed her yet, you've waited too long! You shouldn't ever have that awkward moment.

    I had a friend that seemed to have the same problem you do. He revealed that he was loose and cool while picking them up but then felt he had to go by certain "rules of behavior" while dating.

    No rules. Be joking and playful just like you were when you picked her up.

    If you could give more specifics of what happens on your dates it would help. Not sure exactly what you are or are not doing.


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    Fork, Your post really helped.

    I think maybe I'm trying too hard to think of things to say or keep her interest. I'm cocky but sometimes it's not cocky funny, just....cocky. Which is natural to me.

    I can also find myself supplicating, which I hate!! If a girl doesnt f close or I don't notice her interested in me, I get frustrated and tell her i'm taking her home.

    Had amazing hot sex Friday night until Saturday at 3pm with this younger girl, but it could have gone either way. I had major holes in my game and personality with her. Only reasons she farked the hell out of me was 1) She was at my apt, drinking, and she lived far away 2) She saw my ride 3) She wanted a boyfriend and played the 'nice guy' and agreed to see her more. After I agreed to do that. BAM anything I wanted she did in bed.

    But my game has the flaw of me trying to hard.

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    Definitely agree with fork if she gave u her number that means she was attracted so why would u want to change the way u act? get out of your head!
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Image and attitude

    Here is my overall attitude on dates and it has been very effective for me consistently with all types of girls.

    1. My Goal for the evening: Have Fun. DO NOT have a goal of having sex! Why? Because each chick has a rule of how many dates to be with you until they can have sex with you without feeling like a SLUT. ASD has more to do with how long it will take her to give it to you than anything else. Respect that about her. If you deceive her into giving you sex too early than a part of her will lose trust for you. In fact, she might not even go out with you again. What does this mean? If she doesn't seem interested, SHE ISN'T LOSING INTEREST. The reason she may act slightly put off is she is trying to not give it away on the date but at the same time doesn't want to lose you. So the next time you're with a chic on a date, and she seems to not be interested, don't believe it. It's just the ASD inside her showing it's ugly head. Also, if you get to third base, don't push too hard for the home run! (for some chics, giving a BJ is ok on 1st date but not sex. go figure. )


    2. My attitude on a date: Relief. Huge relief. Just have fun and who cares. I don't have to worry about getting a phone number because I already have it. I don't have to worry about her feeling attraction for me because she already does or she wouldn't be here. I don't have to worry about whether I'm going to score because I already know it's a matter of time even if it's on the second or third date. (ASD) My only concern is to make sure kino is slowly escalating. Not only on the first date, but from date to date until you close the deal. It doesn't matter how slowly the kino escalates, as long as it keeps escalating. If kino gets stagnant, or decreases...YIKES! (friend zone).

    Basically dude, just have fun and know she'll give it up eventually. No harsh deadlines. Sex is much more of a risk for a woman than a man.



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