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    Default Re: Bad case of one itis? or something else? help

    She obviously is having some internal turmoil and you ,requiring her to define a relationship the she may WANT to be ready for but actually is not, is only going to further confuse her imo. Lol that's my first imo ever. Anyways you did the right thing breaking it off with her. You are a man that has standards and if she can't even change a simple fb status from being single (She could've at least made it blank. You can do that on fb.) then she does not deserve you. So if you want to continue with her then do so, but do not push a relationship. Now here is an interesting fact you should know.....One of the biggest factors in determining if people will be monogamus, is the feeling of "fear of loss." If you can give her that feeling, that she will lose you, then she will definitely want the relationship. My guess though is that it sounds like she is not emotionally investing in you so if you do this she may not act on it and just let you go. In that case, think of it that you just did yourself a huge favor. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Bad case of one itis? or something else? help

    her status is blanked out now, but she was arguing or w/e with some afc on her wall and he asked if she had a man and she said no, that combined with her ex messaging me pissed me off, when i talked to her about it , she was all o well its going to cause drama if i say we are together with her baby daddy / ex. i was like well if you are truly done with him then you shouldnt give a shit bout what he says unless it deals with your child in common. idk imo but yea ive been on top of my game lately not takin any bs from women and firm about what i expect

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    Default Re: Bad case of one itis? or something else? help

    she explains(ed) to me that all her close friends and fam know that we r together i guess, but i kinda felt she wanted to keep that single front open to flirt with other dudes on fb , which im not down with

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    Default Re: Bad case of one itis? or something else? help

    Yea it's just not a good sign. It's only fb, I know, but I guess it has to do with principle. Imagine a woman that is totally into you and how she would behave. Then imagine a woman who wants nothing to do with you and how she would behave. Compare your ex and you should get an idea of where on the scale she is.

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    Default Re: Bad case of one itis? or something else? help

    ok so today things have been like this:
    yesterday
    her:no i dont hate you
    today

    me:look im sorry about last week,i think we were moving a bit too fast, how about we go out for drinks, but only if you wear that sexy outfit though

    her:what sexy outfit? lol

    me:dont act like you dont remember , that lil number with the sweat pants , tube top , tennis shoes and bicycle helmet

    her:haha ur crazy, but ok ill wear it

    me: but maybe you could surprise me, you ought to know what i like by now , unless your not up to the challenge?

    her:well u.k me , i like a challenge : )

    me: well i figure you were good with challenges , i was curious how you'd do with surprises

    her:i hate them

    me: well thats no fun : (

    her: sorry

    is it just me or did she just have a mood swing here, i wanna say some like "hey well no one is forcing you" or some shit idk? ideas?

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    Default Re: Bad case of one itis? or something else? help

    Great start, but you pushed the idea too far, shoulda kept it short and cut to a time after she said she liked a challenge.

    Absolutely no on what you want to say. Just make it simple

    "so Saturday, your sexy dress, at x?"

    Shorter = less needy. Don't respond right away either
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: Bad case of one itis? or something else? help

    haha so i was like "so ill pick you up 10pm, saturday, in that sexy black skirt."
    she was like , "haha ok"

    i think i should just keep quiet til then?

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    Default Re: Bad case of one itis? or something else? help

    allow me to preface this post by saying , you guys rock. and i dont mean rock in the sense of an elderly woman knitting a blanket in a old chair, but more like a boulder being shaken loose and rolling violently down a mountainside, only to unleash a volcano shortly after it its crushes some hill side houses.

    any how onto my post

    so i have pretty much kept quiet with her, tryin to act like i've been busy (and i really have, as ive been txting these 2 other HBs) so i think ive changed things back to her chasing me a bit, yesterday went like this

    me:hey i just got tickets to see the game tonight (baseball and she loves baseball)
    (hour passes, still nothing)
    me: never mind i actually got tied up with another friend going
    (30 seconds pass)
    her:huh?
    (ten mins pass)
    i call her and explain everything quick, she sounds like she wants to talk , bad day and sh1t etc. i kept it short and just reconfirm that i will see her at 10.

    later that night i was working a street festival , lots of people out , bars , bands outside etc.

    my booth had a photo contest
    so i posted up several pics of myself posing with some HBs, and even some with some girls and dudes (as to not make it tooo obvious)

    her:i miss you
    (40 mins later)
    me: tomorrow will be here soon enough
    (almost instantly, if not under 10 mins)
    her:not for me!! imu and ernie's (my son) crazy lil behind
    (hour later)
    me: (sent a pic of myself wearing a rasta wig at the festival)
    her: haha lmao you are so crazy

    and that was it for last night , now later i got home and my buddy came over (read close friends , although ive been back stabbed by some dumpster diving friends before, but i really trust this kid)

    he tells me she has been texting him shows me the messages, she been going on and on how she misses me, and how im soo passionate and hard to resist etc. he told her to tell me herself if this is how she feels and she said she cant, he pryed a bit as to why she cant, she said idk ,i cant.

    any how

    my thoughts, i dunno if i buy her sh1t she said to ,my buddy, because all of this coincides with some more drama with her baby dad, i dont "think" she is farkin him , but ive see good in people where there isnt before too : /. but also ive been talkin to 2 other girls too, so im drifting more and more from having a relationship with this one girl and just keeping her as a fbuddy.


    so i think when i meet up with her tonight , we will go out have a few, get a ride back to my spot, and let her ask questions about us and our status. she thinks we are going to be taking it slow,

    but i wanna make it clear , but nice , that if shes got some wishy wash feelings about baby dad and likes to flirt on face book , she has waay to many dudes flyin around like flies and sh1t, that i dont wanna get serious with her, that way i dont look like an afc for hanging out with her after i made a big deal about her and that shit with other dudes.

    but i think if i let her know this that will make her thing i actually give "us" a thought and will change that dynamic of her chasing me . so idk

    ideas?

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    Default Re: Bad case of one itis? or something else? help

    she texted not to long ago and flaked on me, saying she would have to take a rain check, damn lol i just hit her back and was like whats up?, no answer going to leave it at that i suppose

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    Default Re: Bad case of one itis? or something else? help

    I think you need to listen to what these guys are saying...you are coming across as a AFC....you gotta play the game or you're done for man....


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