She obviously is having some internal turmoil and you ,requiring her to define a relationship the she may WANT to be ready for but actually is not, is only going to further confuse her imo. Lol that's my first imo ever. Anyways you did the right thing breaking it off with her. You are a man that has standards and if she can't even change a simple fb status from being single (She could've at least made it blank. You can do that on fb.) then she does not deserve you. So if you want to continue with her then do so, but do not push a relationship. Now here is an interesting fact you should know.....One of the biggest factors in determining if people will be monogamus, is the feeling of "fear of loss." If you can give her that feeling, that she will lose you, then she will definitely want the relationship. My guess though is that it sounds like she is not emotionally investing in you so if you do this she may not act on it and just let you go. In that case, think of it that you just did yourself a huge favor. Hope this helps and good luck.