So I've been seeing this girl for maybe a couple months. We both have kids , which was one thing that made me interested in her. Initially we texted on and off a bit and she was somewhat hard to chill with. Whenever I would suggest us meeting up she would stop responding only to respond later and not answer about us chilling. So i froze her out for a week or so, then hit her up with something like. "Hey I didn't hear from you lately so i figured you were in jail. I made you a cake with key in it to break you out, etc... so you owe me now and should take me out , etc. Any how she ended up having some drama go down with her baby dad taking her plates off her car that weekend and couldn't chill. (as i write this im reflecting a bit on the drama here) Any how I told her to have a nice one at that point, but then a few days later i commented on something on her fb, and we started talking again. So maybe a week later i made a joke about us never hanging out and she suggested going out to bar crawl. We met up hung out to midnight or so and went back to me place where she spent the night. The next day we hung out with both our kids and went to the museum. So fast forward to today maybe a month later and shes been over every weekend with her kid at my place and weve been going out and taking the kids out and such. So last week her baby dad sends me this message on face book, pretty much telling me , she has been texting him , and tryin to go down memory lane and such etc. The prior day we got to talking and she mentioned he would do something like that after i brought up the fact she says shes single on her fb and in posts. IMHO one cant be loyal with someone if they go around saying they are single or we are friends. She says to me that we are together and ive been round her family and friends but she says she says we are friends to strangers or on fb to avoid drama. I replied with well if you someone really makes you happy you shouldnt hide you are with them. Any how though i ended up breakin up with her last weekend after all of this. I really miss her and hanging out with her so a couple days later (last night) i called her and she answered and we talked a bit. But this morning i woke up with a big idk in my head. I really care about her but im not going to be wasting my time and energy in someone that says they are single and acts like i dont exist around some people. Any thoughts?