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    Default Finished 'The Game', don't know what's next

    Hi there,

    Today I finished reading 'The Game' and I have been wondering what's next?

    What should I do now?

    I know it looks like some wierd question but I really do not know how to go on.

    I know what I want to accomplish as my first step - learn and master approaching to every woman in any situation.
    I'm kinda shy and need to get over my approaching problem.

    Any tips you can tell?
    Books I can read on the subjects that can help?
    Extercises that I can deal with?

    In addition,
    some questions:

    - Should I go sarging by myself / approach a woman while sitting with a bunch of male and female friends at a bar?

    - What do you think about learning bar tricks for situations in a bar and breakdance for party?

    - Any other skills you recommend?


    Thanks a lot

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    Default Re: Finished 'The Game', don't know what's next

    Bar tricks? Not so sure about that, but cold reading is great, aka the cube and other similar things

    Practice just being as social as possible, say hi to everyone and see how far you can lead a conversation

    As far as books, here's a post I put out a while ago, this should give you all the direction you need

    http://www.puaforums.com/recommended...-list-you.html
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    Default Re: Finished 'The Game', don't know what's next

    What I personally did was going out there during the day to open women direct (being straight up with them and telling them why you're there). It took me quite a few weeks to actually work up the balls, though. But here's how I did it:

    -Read all useful PUA material you can find over and over again, and really get it into your system. Especially on being an alpha male.

    -Choose a specific spot you're going to practise in. Preferably not in your hometown unless it has like 300K+ residents. Walk around there some and get used to that environment and being there. It should start to feel like a second living room somewhat.

    -Walk up to a woman and tell her 'Hi, don't scare up. I just wanted to say you look very beautiful' (you can replace that with anything else you might think of - you have amazing legs, you look very sexy, etc.).

    -Repeat that over and over again until your AA is gone. Remember that there's a little bit of AA every new day you're going to sarge, so don't freak out the next day. It'll be very easy to get over though, because you've already approached before.

    And don't learn bar tricks or breakdancing. The latter one seems too try hard and tricks are very old skool.


    EDIT: Hey The Red Baron, good to see you post again

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    Default Re: Finished 'The Game', don't know what's next

    The danger of just learning this stuff is that you get consumed with getting better so much that you will be afraid to go out and try these things until you are "perfect." When the reality is that you WILL screw up again and again and that's ok. Because you are learning and gaining experience and if you keep trying then you will only get better. I would like to add to The Red Barons book list a book that I think may be a bit underrated, but has helped me a great deal. It's The Attraction Code by Vin DiCarlo.


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