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    Default Pushing a girl too far?

    Basically I teased the fark out of a 6'1", I asked if she wanted to do something later and she said "No, I have a height requirement for guys (I'm 5'10")" So I replied "Oh so you're into sasquatches like yourself huh? By the way, did you shave your fur before you came out tonight?"

    She smiled, but boy I think I'm pushing my limits.

    Edit: Let me rephrase that in question form: How can I tease a girl with the intention of interesting her not just DHV and coming across like an ass, in the face of tests like that?

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    Default Re: Pushing a girl too far?

    Hahahahahahha I can't believe you said that hahahahahahha. Idk man hahahahahahaha

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    Default Re: Pushing a girl too far?

    Yeah dude she playfully kicked me later but she didn't seem to wanna part with her number earlier so I didn't push it. She was a good sport... mostly.

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    Default Re: Pushing a girl too far?

    How about, 'don't u know taller guys get less oxygen to their brain, which makes them slow and capable of passing out whenever? With me you don't have to worry about that.'

    But ya i m surprised u said that hahaha, that sounds like some strait up playground trash talk, no offense. It is funny though, just don't insult her as much.

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    Default Re: Pushing a girl too far?

    Try to avoid teasing women about things they can't change. Weight, height, teeth, lazy eye (if you're into that), nose etc. Tease her hair color, nails, clothing, makeup. And when you do tease and it comes out pretty harsh then make sure to change the subject immediately so as to not wait for her reaction. Otherwise you run the risk of her blowing you out. Now if you do bring up something they cannot change, like height in this situation, you could try using disqualifiers rather than teasing and see if that works. Also Vin DiCarlo says if you are unsure how to respond to a woman, just shrug your shoulders and make your face into an "I've got nothing" face and change the subject. You don't always have to react directly to what a woman says. Sometimes blowing it off like it's not worth your energy reacting to is a DHV in itself.

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    Default Re: Pushing a girl too far?

    Mega lol at the sasquatch comment.

    From what I've learned that sounds like a bitch shield/coupled with insecurity.

    To counter the bitch shield I would have:

    1. Said something bizarre to completely throw her off, don't respond defensively by insulting her back as it shows insecurity, something like "Are you coming onto me?" I did this to a HB10 recently in a club who told me I was too skinny for her and she loved it.

    2. The insult was cool and cocky but not the way I would have played it, if she's 6'1 she's bound to be insecure as fk, the height requirement comment was probably to avoid embarassment of you two being seen together - she may well like you/have the beginnings of attraction, but you need to have a pretty strong frame to offset the height difference basically.

    3. If she's really insecure you could try and let yourself be friend zoned, basically invite her out to a non threatening environment for a coffee and then work ur game from there dropping in bits of attraction game i.e the whole "I need to buy some new clothes and I really need a girls opinion" game.

    But yeh, generally for sh1t tests now I just spout something bizarre or the 'Are you coming onto me' line - it's better in person cause you can ask it geniunely amused/cocky. It's all about having a frame that can't be shaken basically. Research 'Kezia on bitch shields' in Youtube - pretty damn good material in my opinion.

    Best of luck with it anyway buddy

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    Default Re: Pushing a girl too far?

    Reframing as a "come on" ,as Tension put it, is always good. I know we use the term "Targets" but essentially men and women are on the same team and want the same things. So always try to reframe insults as a come on. I guess if you think about it she gave you a shit test and you failed. Also it might've been funny telling her she might just have to get her shins removed just so you can tolerate going out with her. Random thought.

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    Default Re: Pushing a girl too far?

    Good advice on both re-framing the neg and the shoulder shrug. Thanks!

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    Default Re: Pushing a girl too far?

    I like the idea of the shoulder shrug. It's true that you don't need to defend yourself and not letting is phase you is a big DHV.

    I have to say... the "are you coming on to me?" line is awesome and I'm really looking forward to trying it.

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    Default Re: Pushing a girl too far?

    Haha it's a fun line to use - remember to sell it with confidence!

    Let me know how it goes


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