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    Default Facebook Game - Need Help Following Poke/Reply

    Yo,

    For my background check out the intro thread I just posted - title is PUA from Norfolk

    So I've just recently started practicing Facebook game, as I personally think it's perfect - you can reach tons of girls very quickly and maintain the relationships at your own pleasure.

    I've read material from Whoopie over at the other PuaForum website and recently came across dlee's Add, Poke, Pull which is awesome material also (big props for this).

    I started off a little differently, went on a poke rampage and racked up about 50 pokes - a range of girls from HB 6 to HB10, I don't care what they look like I want to open them.

    A couple of convos are going o.k so far, but this has stumped me.

    1. I poked this girl (HB 8) and she replied "Do I know you?x"
    *I took this as a double indicator of interest, she asked me a question to open me and also put a kiss.
    2. I replied - "Nah you haven't been lucky enough to meet me yet x"
    3. She replied - "Ermmm o.k"
    *I took this to be a bitch shield/doesn't know how to respond. I didn't let myself get deterred, so I figured the best thing to do as I couldn't think of a reply was to freeze her out, so I didn't reply as I figured she'd contact me again.
    4. Today a day later she 'poked' me out of the blue.

    I'm unsure how to proceed from here though - which is where I'm hoping somebody with dlee's expert Facebook game can help me?

    Thanks,

    Tension

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    Default Re: Facebook Game - Need Help Following Poke/Reply

    A bit risky with the cocky response since they tend to wreak of insecurity. Especially when you haven't built any value with her. But she poked you a day later so this could be a good thing. If she poked you then you can try saying ouch that hurt. Stop it. And go from there. Good luck

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    Default Re: Facebook Game - Need Help Following Poke/Reply

    Cheers for the feedback - I already responded with "Umm.. did you just poke me?x" - thought I'd try dlee Facebook Poke Game tact as it's working with other girls I'm talking to atm. That's a good response though, would have used that If I'd checked back earlier!!

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    Default Re: Facebook Game - Need Help Following Poke/Reply

    I'm also mid way through a poke scenario with a HB 10 which has gone as follows:

    Me - "Umm.. did you just poke me?"
    Her - "You poked me, so I poked back? haha"
    Me - "Aw come on now with the lies "
    Her - "I'm not lying"
    Me - "Yeah yeah first you poke me out the blue then lie about doing it! ;P anyway I gtg give me your number and we'll argue about this other text".
    Her - "You poked me first!! I don't give my number to strangers "

    Advice?

    In my mind it would look weak and demonstrate DLV to reply before tommorow as i've said I'm going out, so I guess I'll leave it to then. Also, I think it's probably best to freeze her out a bit before I respond with anything regardless.

    I was thinking of replying with something like:

    "You don't give out your number to strangers but you're quite happy to poke random guys? ;P"

    Doesn't seem right though.

    Help appreciated

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    Default Re: Facebook Game - Need Help Following Poke/Reply

    Seems like something ok to respond with. Just add something unrelated at the end since you don't really expect her to respond to that directly. Also it was way too early for a number close. Phone numbers are overrated so it should be an afterthought and not a goal. That's why you want a solid reason for getting her phone number other than the false security you get thinking now you can contact her. You're contacting her already at the moment on FB so she's thinking whats the point of a phone number. If you come from the perspective of a woman's world you will increase your chances dramatically.

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    Default Re: Facebook Game - Need Help Following Poke/Reply

    Yeah that makes sense I guess thanks!

    Back to the first girl, Lil Miss Superbitch.

    I replied - "Um.. did you just poke me?x"
    She replied - "Yes to get rid of it :L"

    Which is bullshit, cause you can just click the 'x' to remove the poke.

    I know phone numbers aren't the goal, but I was thinking of trying one last cocky response and replying

    "Yeah yeah whatever! Why don't u just stop pretending to not like me and give me ur number I've got stuff to do x"

    Your previous response you mentioned this type of stuff displays insecurity - I do agree with this, but in this case it's more I cba with this girl unless I can break the bitch shield and this is the only thing I can think of atm?

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    Default Re: Facebook Game - Need Help Following Poke/Reply

    You have the right mindset and yes you should still try things even when you're not sure since that is how you gain experience. My guess is that you will get a lol from her and you won't get the number. However with things like these it's a high risk, high reward and there's always a slim chance you caught her on a good, adventurous mood and she will just give it straight to you.

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    Default Re: Facebook Game - Need Help Following Poke/Reply

    Thanks for the heads up yet again, gonna leave it till tommorow then hit her with that line see what happens, got a feeling she's gonna 'lol' at it too but oh well, plenty more where she came from

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    Default Re: Facebook Game - Need Help Following Poke/Reply

    An update on the HB 10 situation

    I replied - "You don't give out ur number to strangers but ur happy to poke random guys? :P"
    She replied - "You poked me first and you know did "

    Kind of lost for what to say next

    Any advice?

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    Default Re: Facebook Game - Need Help Following Poke/Reply

    I am not an expert on online gaming so take this with a grain of salt as I try to come from her perspective. It seems she is obviously open for conversation and is waiting for you to take the lead. So now I suggest transitioning into comfort building while sprinkling attraction material. Online is a different world so I would assume your first priority with women is to get them comfortable being's that they have no idea who you are. You should build attraction first if this was in person, but instead build comfort and sprinkle attraction throughout your conversations (which you should be doing continously anyways even offline) and go from there.


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