Well to be honest I think a relationship would end pretty badly with this one, but this is life and you gotta take risks. This will give you experience and you will at least know you tried. I don't think it's a bad thing to go clubbing together. Only with her going off with other men when you two do not have an understanding what the lines are between each other. If you still want a relationship with her, it will probably end bad, but if it were me I'd still do it, even if I felt it was a mistake. It's risk taking and you will only learn from it. Just be careful of getting sucked into a damaged relationship. And women don't always go to clubs to meet men. Most of the time they go for dancing and drinks and are OPEN to meeting men, but will not make the effort. Some women just want to dance, it's that simple.