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    Default Im sick of her jealousy shit tests need help

    Ok so lately ive Been dating a 9 or ten i would say. A beautiful chick. I gotten it to the point where shes chasing me. But it Seems everytime we go out to a club or o dancing she starts ditching me and goes and dances with other Guys. She somewhat if am attention seeker. It happens everytime and when it does i always leave and let her get a ride with her friends and i go with some other chicks. But she txt me last níght drunk of course saying shes Willing to give up everything for me. I know she digs me but i want more respect. Any advice?

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    Default Re: Im sick of her jealousy sh1t tests need help

    If you're not cool with her dancing with other guys, tell her that. Are you actually dating or just hanging out? If you're actually dating it's an understandable concern. But why are you going to the club so much anyway? Isn't that for singles?

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    Default Re: Im sick of her jealousy sh1t tests need help

    Yeah its dating bro. And good idea i thought telling her might seem reactive. But i tried acting like it doesnt bother me. Haha o like going to dance.

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    Default Re: Im sick of her jealousy shit tests need help

    If your emotional relationship is on a strong enough level then you can introduce more stern punishment/ reward behavior. Non-chalant attitude is great in the beginning but once you have enough rapport and she continues her bad behavior then she will just keep walking all over you. Show your dominant side by stating your expectations of her behavior. Avoid arguing since this will lower your value. Simply stating it should be enough. You need a lot of rapport and value to do this though. However if she's says shed give it all up for you then you are probably in a good spot to pull this off. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Im sick of her jealousy sh1t tests need help

    Tell her what you need to, but start it with this:

    "If you are going to be with me, ..."

    This way she knows exactly what's up and has no excuse. If she keeps it up drop her. Doesn't matter how pretty she is if she isn't worth a shit.
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    Default Re: Im sick of her jealousy sh1t tests need help

    Thanks ya'll for ur advice. But just wanted to state that we e not in a relationship but i kmow im not friends zoned. Shes talked about a relationship though.

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    Default Re: Im sick of her jealousy sh1t tests need help

    Girls like that you gotta keep at arms length. I think she's trouble. Don't try to make her a girlfriend. The fact she wants to go clubbing while with you is a bad sign. Be very very casual with her. Use her to open up other sets. Introduce her to other guys while you pick up other girls. Use her as a prop.

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    Default Re: Im sick of her jealousy sh1t tests need help

    Thats true but wouldnt it be a good idea to try and talk with her First then do that if it doesnt Work ?? Idk

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    Default Re: Im sick of her jealousy sh1t tests need help

    Of course talk with her. Keep in touch. Bring her to the clubs. But not as a gf.

    If she's your gf, and still wants to go clubbing and "meet people," then she's dissing you.

    People go clubbing to meet the opposite sex.

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    Default Re: Im sick of her jealousy shit tests need help

    Its strange though cus here in my town a lot of couples go dancing. I think its because im hispanic and its a thing couples do.


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