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    Wiscoboy24 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Out of the game for a while, what am I doing wrong?

    I also had another thread about another girl, but I just met this one, and I'll be honest I've been out of the game for awhile, and I know the laws of attraction and do it well but I seem to fail at something. Some input would be nice.

    Ok I've been out of the game for awhile.... and I am a bit confused. Yesterday I met this girl and we had a great time, we we're flirting she touched me, punched me in a playful way and even touched my butt. Yesterday was a great time I felt like we clicked, and we even held hands I played it off in a clever way and said she had to hold my hand when we we're climbing and she let me. So I believe she has some attraction to me, at the end of the night it was ok but not as great as it was earlier... it wasn't akward perhaps I should have just let it go and stopped hanging out. It wasn't a boring time but maybe I over did it. I know she leaves in a few weeks overseas until December.

    I am good friends with her friend, and I invited her today because she wanted to see my dog. Well she kind of blew me off, she told her friend, but not me, so I played it off cool and said no big deal, get a hold of me this week and if I am not busy will hangout and you can meet my dog. Well I told her I am busy Wednesday, and Thursday and honestly I am not going to change my schedule, because for one I will actually be with some friends, and two I'd never change my plans because it would also make me look desparate, so she said "Ok well I'll text ya and let ya know", and I just said "sounds good".

    So I am not going to text her during those days I know that. But what did I do wrong? I mean I think she was attracted to me obviously if she touched me, and she let me touch her, and hold hands. But today has been a complete turnaround. Than again she is leaving a few weeks to go overseas. So what should I do? Thanks for the opinions guys.

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    Default Re: What am I doing wrong?

    You didn't seem to do anything wrong...maybe she was hoping you would kiss her at the end of the night? Anyway you never know with women, she could be in PMT right now or anything. Just keep to your schedule and then pounce hard next time you see her in person.

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    Wiscoboy24 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What am I doing wrong?

    Ok so there is a an attraction like I thought... Just weird how she blew me off. I know she has her own issues and stuff.

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    Default Re: What am I doing wrong?

    Ya id say u did alrite there probably coulda made a move but oh well.

    Don't be mad or confused that shew blew u off, if it was just once. As I've read on here, from other places, and my own experience many girls are just notorious for being flakes, or flaking out on you. It could be over a number of reasons, she had other plans she wanted to take (the younger they are more chances), she got sick, got PMS (am I too old to lol there?), and she mighta just been givin u a shit test- like to see if you'll over react or anything, and she just mite not want ya to think she likes u yet, if she's thinkin it over.

    Id say let that one slide, but if u guys make plans again and she flakes, its time for u to be on the fence about it. 3rd time, u gotta step up and lay the law down a bit- I doubt that'll happen tho where u stand now.

    Just see if she wants to make plans, and escalate from there. Hope that helps bro, good luck!


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