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    Default Advice Needed for Traveler

    You guys are the experts - I'm the newbie, so I'd appreciate your advice on something. I travel regularly with work, and I'm typically in a city one week or so at a time. Of course one of the questions I get from women I meet when I'm on the road is "do you live here?". How do you handle this situation? Will girls be less inclined to get involved with you if they know you are not from the area, and
    therefore perceive that they will not see you very often after you're gone? My preference is to be as honest as possible, but I also don't want to kill the mood/ruin my chances so I'm not sure if total honesty is really an option. Let me know how you guys handle these situations when you're traveling/out of town, thanks.

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    Default Re: Advice Needed for Traveler

    I wouldn't stress about it

    If you live in an area and are moving out, girls are less inclined. But for travelers it doesn't appear to have the same affect, you're an adventure

    Use it as an opener anyway, it's super easy "hey I'm only in town for a week what's the one thing I need to do while I'm here?", or where are the hot spots, etc. work it in early, it's really a non issue. Sometimes I meet more girls traveling than at home, and definitely capitalize on the chance to use it as an opener "ok you girls look like the ones to talk to, so what's up with this town? Etc"

    Always stay honest anyway. Besides, if you meet the girl of your dreams you'd find a way to see her again.
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    Default Re: Advice Needed for Traveler

    Red Baron is right. Be honest and totally use it to your advantage. I travel all over the country every couple of weeks and I'm actually more confident away from home. There's a sense that I have less to loose in general, less time to waste, less strings attached, the perception there are more women to talk to because it's new and exciting for me and more of a vibe from girls you are desirable because your travelling, somehow different and doing something exciting. You have lots to ask and lots to talk about. Your more likely to take risks and risk taking is actually considered a desirable trait by women (obviously not extreme risk taking).

    Very often girls will have a fling very easily because your not there for long - it's like some biological urge that an outsider alpha could have better or more diverse genes or something. You have to tap into those primal urges by going out, having a blast and sowing your seeds. That is the mood i would create, not romantic slow relationship moods. The action romance 'make love in case we all die tomorrow' movie. Plus if you have a fling with a girl often next time your in town you see her again and it's still no strings attached because that was always known at the beginning, you treated her right and you had a good time. A girl in every port as they say. I've had some wonderful work travel flings. Enjoy

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    Default Re: Advice Needed for Traveler

    Red Baron and whitedragon - thanks, that's great advice. My nature is to think of all women as always having one motivation at all times - a long term relationship/find a husband. I never think that they (just might) actually be trying to have a good time and an adventure with someone new as well. I think that's just inexperience on my part. I'm definitely going to work on relaxing and changing my mental outlook the next time I'm out.


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